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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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tymeModerator

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I'm so confuzzled. You bought a pizza, and now you are on your way home? @Birdofparadise8 You are walking because you didn't bring your card? Is that right?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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why cant you go inside and up to your dorm @Birdofparadise8 is there no way up to your dorm besides where the function is being held?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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No @tyme

I bought a pizza as there is a uni function downstairs in the community area kitchen. So I couldn’t cook dinner. So I sat in the park and ate my pizza as I didn’t want to sit with everyone on my own and feel back in high school being judged.

I walked back and went past and there are people absolutely everywhere and security out the front.

In panicking because I don’t want to go back inside and people see me around there.

I’m probably making a mountain out of a mole hill, but I’m on the verge of crying.

I hope that makes more sense I’m sorry.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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No other way other than climbing up the wall and in the window so no @outlander

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Sorry that was mean @outlander

I’m just very anxious and that’s making me sad as well.

I’ll finish my ice cream and try.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ok well i guess you have the choice to just face your fear and keep going through and up to the dorm for an uncomfortable couple of minutes or go and grab an ice cream and entertain yourself until the function starts to die off

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Yeah I guess so @outlander

I’m just over thinking this.

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tymeModerator

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Would anyone know if you walked in past through them and went to your room @Birdofparadise8 ?

Otherwise you may have to hang out at a cafe and join the peer group chat 🙂

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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They are out the front so yes they would @tyme

I just need to face my fear and go past.

There is another sitting at 7:30 so they might just think I’m going to that one.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Okay I’m inside another person walked in the same time I did so thank god for that @tyme @outlander

Sorry about that.

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