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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor08 Nov 2022, 6:51 pm AEDT

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 July 2023, 6:18 pm AEST

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not a burden @Birdofparadise8 you just have to find things that help you break the cycle.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor17 July 2023, 6:21 pm AEST

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Yeah, maybe I can ask my psych on Wednesday @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 July 2023, 6:23 pm AEST

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sounds like a good idea @Birdofparadise8

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor17 July 2023, 6:25 pm AEST

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I'm going to have dinner. I'll leave you alone for a bit, @outlander.

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 July 2023, 6:28 pm AEST

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enjoy dinner @Birdofparadise8 im just getting an assignment done

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor17 July 2023, 7:42 pm AEST

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How is your assignment going, @outlander?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor17 July 2023, 7:56 pm AEST

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I've just seen my roster for next week, and I'm on with that coworker on the 25th. I'm really worried that's going to tip me over the edge.

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 July 2023, 7:59 pm AEST

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im slowly getting there with it @Birdofparadise8

my brain is abit tired so ill probably stop there with it. ive done half of it at this moment

can i ask what this coworker is doing to make you so uncomfortable?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor17 July 2023, 8:03 pm AEST

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That's good @outlander

I literally came home crying after every shift working with her. She is so rude and passive-aggressive. She goes off at me for doing the slights thing not her way. It's not good, and I can't cope with being around her anymore.

I'm starting to panic about it now. I just know what I'm going to be like after the shift, let alone with my plan and everything in place. I'm crying about it now.

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 July 2023, 8:04 pm AEST

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@Birdofparadise8 have you spoken to anyone at the workplace about it?
can you ask to be put onto shifts that she is not on? or refuse to work with that person

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