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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hope so as well @Birdofparadise8 together they can hopefully come up with a good safety plan for you or a next course of action for you. if its that bad again do you think hospital would be an option for you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I'm not sure my mum and dad come over from Friday to Sunday so I'll be okay until then. It's going to be more like the week after I am worried about @outlander

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I don't see how going inpatient would do anything. It didn't help before why would it help again @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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at least its an option for you @Birdofparadise8 sometimes its not for specific treatments it can be used for support and keeping you safe if need be.
will speaking to your parents help?

what is the week after? will you be home alone again

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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No my parents can not find out that I am suicidal it would break them @outlander

So I'm home tomorrow and Tuesday, but I won't do anything as I have work on Wednesday and Thursday then they come over Friday to Sunday, so this is between the 17th to the 25th. I have work on Monday and Tuesday so should be okay then. It's more after that as I have the 26th till August off as I go back to uni on Monday the 31st. So what I'm saying is I'm worried about the time of the 25th night time till the 30th.

Does that make sense at all?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yes that makes sense @Birdofparadise8
its important to have check in points then and work out a good safety plan between khl and your in person psychologist as well as your gp for that duration.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I swear this keeps happening every few months @tyme. Don't you think? December - Jan, March I think maybe not too many times to keep counting, May and now.

I've been on my new meds six weeks so that might be why. Like I've said before each time I try a new medication it makes me worse. You know I've officially been on meds for a year now and not one has helped I've tried seven maybe eight all the same effect.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Yeah I was wondering about my GP I am thinking about seeing her this Friday before I see my parents.

You know, the funny thing is on a Tuesday, we both work at the same hospital lol @outlander.

I've seen her twice at work. We obviously keep it professional.

If I see her Friday at the GP practice, I'll see her the following Tuesday at work.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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might be a good idea to have check in points. maybe make an appintment with her between the 25 and the 30th or even 2 appointments that you can go to check in with someone.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Yes, I could do that as well. She works Monday, Wednesday and Friday.

The only thing though, I know what will happen if I'm not safe @outlander which I don't want to happen.

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