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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Re: Tw Not Coping

No @Birdofparadise8 , you are not being overly dramatic. If it affects you, then it affects you. No one can tell you not to 'feel' it.

It sound reassuring that you have and are doing something about it.

It sounds like this worker does it to others as well. I'm wondering if there's something going on for them for them to treat people like that?

At the same time, it doesn't mean you should be someone's punching bag.

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@Shaz51, I’m sorry, that is a lot to be dealing with 😔. Sending you hugs 🫂💖

@Birdofparadise8, I hope your boss is able to sort things out.

@tyme, have you been up to much today?

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Mmm, I guess I don't know what else I can do about it. I don't know how I can go to work feeling unsafe emotionally if she is there.

Well, who knows how far that will get? Management might not do anything.

I think she is annoyed as she has been here for ten years, and then someone comes in as is team leader hasn't been here as long. She has her issues with management and me @tyme.

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I hope so, too @creative_writer.

I can't going like this if she is there.

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Re: Tw Not Coping

Ahhhh @Birdofparadise8 ...so she's got her nose outta joint??

IF, things were not to change, what do you think YOU can do the make the difference? I hear you don't want to work when she's there, but just say there's no other choice. What do you think will help the situation?

No need to answer now. Just something to think about.

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Yes she does it seems like it @tyme

Hmm, I guess like I did yesterday just breath and tried to remain calm until I got home.

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Hi @tyme @creative_writer @Shaz51 @amber22 @Kyle1 @Captain24

How is everyone today?

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Hey @tyme

I’m working again today I finish at 7:30.

I don’t know what is wrong with everyone, another colleague is being rude.

Maybe I am the problem.

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That sounds tough @Birdofparadise8 . Would you consider asking them if there’s something they don’t like about how you do things?

Only if you feel up to it.

Over the years, this is what I’ve learnt to do. It’s taken a long time to get to be able to do this though.

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Mmm I’m not sure he doesn’t seem to happy in general @tyme

Oh well I’ll just have to put up with shit and then go home and cry.

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