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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Same one from last week.

No they haven't yet I'm not sure what is happening @tyme.

She went off at me telling me to shut up because I was giving her a headache. As I was asking her how to do something.

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Hey @Shaz51 , hope things are okay. How's mum, Mr Shaz, and MIL?

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@tyme , @Birdofparadise8

Saw the doctor today and he was not very happy due to I have not had any check ups with any specialists or doctors since February

Soo blood tests next week then regular check ups says the doctor 🤔

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@Shaz51 🫂

@Birdofparadise8, you are not alone 💖🫂

Hi @tyme, I hope you are well 🙂

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Do you have a medical condition @Shaz51 as to why your doctor wasn't happy? Only if you're comfortable to share with me.

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I'm so sorry to hear that @Birdofparadise8 . That's not okay.

I'm wondering whether you have documented the incident/s in the form of incident reports and then put in a formal complaint? Would you consider that?

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Yes @Birdofparadise8 , @creative_writer , @tyme

I have stage 4 kidney disease with only one kidney which is working at 19% and have diabetes, Osteoporosis and osteoarthritis

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I'm not on here @creative_writer, but I still feel like I am.

The counsellor I spoke to was nice and all I just talked about was work and why I'm such a mess even tonight.

The one thing though I have a really bad urge to SH, which I haven't had in like two months so I don't know why it is back, and you know what she suggested. For me to have a hot chocolate. As if that's going to fix how I'm feeling right now.

Maybe I'm just being overly dramatic about everything @tyme @creative_writer.

I have told my boss about previous incidents and other work colleagues have done the same. I sent an email to the NUM, and she said she would follow it up. I have work tomorrow so I will let my boss know.

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Hi there @creative_writer 🙂

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Ah, okay, @Shaz51.

Your health is just as important as Mr Shaz's.

I hope everything turns out okay for you.

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