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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor08 Nov 2022, 6:51 pm AEDT

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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tymeModerator06 July 2023, 10:06 pm AEST

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Precisely... you don't want to suffer @Birdofparadise8 .

I hear it is hard, so I we are here with you. I recognise your aunt has been a great part in your life. Know that she is not going anywhere. I respect her in that she has taken the time to tell you. It's actually very thoughtful of her. The fact that they have 'worked it' out and presented a potential plan shows they are not just 'letting go of you'. They honestly really care.

Consider scheduling in more activities including social, work, study etc. I can see you are very driven in terms of your responsibilities which can be helpful in this case.

I know you can do it. I'm off now, but will speak soon.

Take care. Enjoy your time with your mum.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor06 July 2023, 10:13 pm AEST

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Well they worked it out but not really involving me and if it’s really the plan I want. It’s going to be there plan or no plan and no talking.

I know they care they just want to be here for me.

I hope you have a good night talk when your next on @tyme

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creative_writerSenior Contributor07 July 2023, 12:04 pm AEST

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Hi @Birdofparadise8, I hope you are doing well today, sorry missed you yesterday ❤️

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor07 July 2023, 1:08 pm AEST

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All good, just been busy with my mum today.

Mood wise I’m alright I guess haven’t had time to feel emotions today like I did earlier in the week. It was so had with my coworker that was so passive aggressive. I cried so much on Tuesday and Wednesday.

How are you traveling @creative_writer?

I hope you’re doing okay.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor07 July 2023, 5:26 pm AEST

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@Birdofparadise8, I’m sorry you were treated that way by your coworker.

I’m doing better than yesterday, still a bit shook

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tymeModerator07 July 2023, 5:35 pm AEST

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Hey @creative_writer @Birdofparadise8 🙂

How's things today?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor07 July 2023, 5:38 pm AEST

Re: Tw Not Coping

What happened yesterday @creative_writer?

Hi @tyme

How are you?

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tymeModerator07 July 2023, 5:42 pm AEST

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Been pretty good. I've been babysitting the kids today so it's been okayish... I'm glad I can hand them back @Birdofparadise8 .

How's everything with you and your mum?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor07 July 2023, 5:45 pm AEST

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Hahaha that’s funny @tyme

Yes it’s been good she got my two tops which look nice. We are trying to workout where to go for dinner.

Got any suggestions lol.

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tymeModerator07 July 2023, 5:49 pm AEST

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Lygon street, where else? @Birdofparadise8 ! Can be in Melb and not go to Lygon street for dinner 🙂

Lygon street is so popular. I don't think I breach anonymity there.

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