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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Just because you are sad @Birdofparadise8 , I can't say I call that complaining.

Let's just say, this is a 'phase'. It won't always be like that. There are many members who are here when they go through a difficult phase, then when things are better, we don't see them so much online. However, when there is another difficult phase, they pop back online. And that's okay.

It all depends on how you want to use these forums.

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@Birdofparadise8 it’s totally okay. I feel like if you don’t reach out for support in a safe place it builds up. I wouldn’t consider it complaining either

@tyme glade he woke up from night terror. Poor thing.

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Ok thank you @tyme I just feel like I am o guess. Wanting to be better but I’m not. My aunt says is a phase as well that it will pass and then maybe come back someday and then go again or I may never have another.

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True @Birdofparadise8 - it's unpredictable. It's so hard. Comes and goes, especially when you least expect it.

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Ohh hugs @creative_writer , @Birdofparadise8 , @tyme. ❤❤

The weekend is finally finished

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@Birdofparadise8 depression is weird. I cycled out not that long ago and cycled back in a few days later.

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Thank you @creative_writer @Shaz51 @tyme


I find talking about it helps a lot.

Actually yesterday I reached out to beyond blue I have used them a bit more lately, but omg they were so useless the lady told me talk to other people, or meditate and I already said that I’ve done heaps of stuff and telling them I’m not okay. I felt more angry and upset after talking to them. How are we supposed to talk to these people if they won’t even help anyway.

Its just a season I’m in I guess and it will pass eventually I guess.

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Fair enough @Birdofparadise8 . But I also want to point out that there are many people who work on these service lines. Sometimes you get the helpful, sometimes you get the no-so-helpful. So I'd encourage you to reach out when you feel the need. You may get a super helpful person!

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@Birdofparadise8 SANE is open tom. Have you ever tried contacting them? I’ve found them more helpful than beyond blue.

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Yeah I have beyond blue is terrible to be honest. Kids Helpline is also good as I am under 25 @creative_writer @tyme

It can depend on the person you get some helpful and some not.

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