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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hi @creative_writer @tyme


I’m literally on the train and want to cry right now and I’m waiting to have a chat with KHL because I really want to self harm and my suicidal thoughts are really intense. I’ve just been out with my aunt and her partner.

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tymeModerator

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Hugs @Birdofparadise8 ,

Hey there my dear... BREATHE....

......

......

Did something happen tonight to make you feel this way? I mean, with seeing your aunt?

I'm giving you a hug right here right now.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Happy Birthday @Jynx

Thinking of you both @Birdofparadise8 @creative_writer

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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No nothing with her I was feeling like this before I went out @tyme I’m not sure I can I just want to break down right now but I can’t till I get back to my room.

How are you!

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Thank you @Captain24

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tymeModerator

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Let the tears flow if you think it is going to help @Birdofparadise8 - one day, you might find you cannot cry anymore....

Have you been able to connect with a GP in Melb yet?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Yeah, I had an appointment last week and again next week.

I am crying. I am not sure how safe I am going to be @tyme

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@tyme, I think I’m experiencing a trauma response. The anxiety I experience around people isn’t just about other people’s judgement, it’s also anxiety around getting hurt.

@Birdofparadise8, sending you hugs. Hold on hun, you can get through this. KHL sounds like a good idea. They are really helpful 💖

@Captain24 💖

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tymeModerator

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Hearing you @Birdofparadise8 . Do you find staying on the forums helpful? Or does it adds to how difficult things are for you?

I'm only asking because some people find other posts too triggering and therefore take some offline time.

Also, do you think you can either call KHL as @creative_writer suggested, or SANE's drop-in line on 1800 187 263?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I like being on here, to be honest, I just don't look at other posts; I'll just stay on this thread.

Yeah, I am waiting for KHL. I just want to do both so bad @tyme

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