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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Re: Tw Not Coping

No not really she said I’m to high risk so now I have to find someone else which sucks @creative_writer

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Re: Tw Not Coping

Do you think I need to go to ED @tyme

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@Birdofparadise8 ,

Just keep going @Birdofparadise8 . Otherwise, perhaps your aunty or someone who understands can take you to ED?

Fear will be there and this is normal.

Ultimately, consider what is best for you.

Is uni a stressor? I know you said you had to get this degree, but is it worth it if you are not around to see it through?

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Your really making that hit home @tyme.

I am looking forward to uni starting.

But do you think I should go. I will be seeing my aunt tomorrow so I’ll ask her and see what she says.

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Sooner of later while in Melb, probably yes @Birdofparadise8 .

But that's for you to know. Do you feel safe? Can you resist for longer? No need to answer these on the forum. These are questions for you to help you decide.

Otherwise, phone this number (triage) and speak to someone about your situation 1300 874 243 - I've spoken to them many many times over the years.

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Re: Tw Not Coping

I really don’t know @tyme I feel so broke right now.

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Re: Tw Not Coping

You will need to take the reins on this one @Birdofparadise8 . You've now taken the step to independence - this is the next step - for you to make decisions about your mental health.

I am not saying you should or shouldn't go as this is your decision. I trust your instinct and your decision on this one.

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Re: Tw Not Coping

Understandably you feeling broken right now @Birdofparadise8 - it's the 'crunch' now. There's probably fear, anxiety, hurt etc also all built up. You have every right to feel this way.

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Yeah okay I’ll have a think and talk to my aunt tomorrow.

Yes very much so I don’t know what to do about it @tyme

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Re: Tw Not Coping

Please be honest with me - if any time, you want me to 'back off', let me know. I respect you in this.

I am proud of you. You have made a big move. This is a new beginning.

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