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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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I feel like I need to reach out again today, but I feel too stupid to do it again. I don’t want to be needy. I already spoke once.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Yeah exactly I don’t need them to know I’m struggling the one thing I will be able to do when I move out is call anytime day or night and no one can question me.

Im also on the web chat queue for kids helpline and omg it is so long it’s so busy I haven’t moved in like 40 minutes @creative_writer

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Don’t worry your not needy I’ve done it myself multiple times in a day @creative_writer

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tymeModerator

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I'm checking for you now @Birdofparadise8

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Don’t worry I just got on thank you though @tyme

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8, I feel the only way I’ll ever be able to move out is after marriage. I sure hope I go into a relationship where I am not constantly questioned and can open up at my own pace. I don’t like being asked about what I spoke about in therapy. I know it’s out of concern from parents part. But i don’t know, I guess I’m just private.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Okay fair enough then take your time @creative_writer there is no rush.

Have people in your past made you open up when you weren’t ready?

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8, I’m not sure. I generally don’t trust people or feel comfortable opening up to them. Like right now I am distressed from processing a trauma detail in my last therapy session, and I have no idea who to talk to. Do I talk to helpline? Do I wait for my psych? My appointment with my psychologist is in a week and a half. But I do have a counsellor appointment on Tuesday. Like I don’t even know what to do. I can’t talk on here about it either.

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tymeModerator

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Hope the webchat was okay @Birdofparadise8

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Oh okay maybe it might be good to talk to someone about it if you feel you can’t wait @creative_writer

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