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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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We will adapt to the new Forum layout.
I also go days without talking to anyone.
People make me nervous.
There are 5 people at the Shed that I trust.
I find people exhausting.

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Oh, that would be difficult, no washing machine.

Yeah, I told him that about only being written.

I guess it could; I just find it annoying when someone says I'm distressed or in crisis when I don't feel I am. @Jynx

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@Birdofparadise8 it's been so annoying with work when I don't get home until late and have no time to chat. I've been so tired I end up having a shower, dinner and then going to bed.

How do you make your sweet and sour sauce? I'd love to make my own, like you say the premade sauces are so full of salt and sugar.

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It's okay. We have the weekend to chat @ENKELI

I'll post the recipe tonight/tomorrow in the cooking thread, and I'll tag you.

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@Glisten the more people I meet the more I like my cat!

The time I crave company is when I want to go out to eat. I'm happy going to see a movie on my own, I prefer shopping alone.

I think being with such a needy person for nearly 10 years made me feel the loneliness more keenly when I was cut out of theirlife so abruptly.

I trust my Sane family more than I trust the people I know in "real" life.

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@Birdofparadise8 thanks gorgeous.

I really should consider making something for dinner but I am not really hungry.

I had a craving for fish and chips last night but I don't know where I can get fresh red emperor in Perthville. I really don't like fish except for the emperor. The taste and texture of most fish makes my toes curl in a bad way!

I got some chicken and as I mentioned before green curry ingredients, might make that.

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@Birdofparadise8 hmm... I wonder if it's like when someone tells me to calm down, it can end up making me feel worse. Do you think it's something like that?

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@Glisten what is your profile picture? With my poor eyesight it looks like a lion, but when I zoomed in it looks more interesting.

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All good @ENKELI

Both sounds nice.

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Yeah, I guess so. It's hard to explain that I'm not distressed when people think I am. I try my best, but it doesn't seem to work.

@Jynx

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