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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@ENKELI I’ve been single my whole life lol. Haven’t found a suitor so I’m just enjoying my single life rn. I have so much anxiety around romantic relationships, probably a trauma response.

I get what you mean by not wanting to get your hopes up high. I think it’s always best to focus on the present and it’s always handy to have a list of things you can do to cope with distressing feelings. Life is like the ocean. Sometimes the waves are smooth, other times the tides are very high.

I’m still struggling but I have got past the trough at least.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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Hi @Birdofparadise8 🙂

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Re: Not Coping

Ah okay @Blackbird11

Do you know how to stop it?

Hi @creative_writer

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Thank you @Blackbird11

I will take a look.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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@Snowie I’m so close I can smell the grass.
Are you going to watch the game?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi @Birdofparadise8

Sounds like you have a good seat.

Will defiantly be watching it from home.

Just watching the GWS v STK game at the moment, then the Carlton game will be on after that.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Yeah I am @Snowie

That’s good I hope your enjoying it.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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We can watch it together @Birdofparadise8

You just might have a better seat then me!

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I think I do @Snowie

I’m happy I don’t have a tall man in front of me. I wouldn't be able to see otherwise.

Hey @tyme do you watch footy?

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