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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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That’s a good thing that there is lots of variety in threads and posts for you - I know what you mean, because I (now I’ve finally learned how to master the search!) also seek out threads that can lift me up if I feel a bit down… there’s lots here even just to read 🌺🙂

@Birdofparadise8

when I read and post, often it’s in responses of support - hopefully using my story to help convey empathy and connection 🙂

sometimes I have posted about how hard things are too, just me, and what I’m going through at the time 🌺🙂

I’m so glad you’re here Birdofparadise8 🤗🌺 and I’m so glad SANE has been a part of the support you’ve needed at those critical times 💜🙂

Thank you so much for your kindness and care, too - that really is so lovely and so uplifting! ☺️

..this is yet another positive attribute you have Birdofparadise8: reaching out to help other people 🙌🏻☺️

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Sounds lovely @ArraDreaming 😎🌺

A bit of sunshine and fresh air! 😀

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Yeah, you can search for a lot of threads @Former-Member

Yes, well, you are full of empathy and kindness.

Yeah, it's really great here.

Aww, that's okay. I do try to not make things about me all the time. I feel bad and that I do make things about myself a lot.

Is everything okay, though?

Oh, I do mostly just stay on this thread. I'm not one to venture out much.

What are you doing this afternoon/tonight?

My mood still isn't great like it hasn't been for the past week.

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Thanks @Birdofparadise8 🙂🌺

That’s ok - the forum is here so you can talk about the things that weigh heavy, and you’ve had a lot of weight to carry emotionally over the years, with being bullied for so very long, so I would expect there’s lots of things to get off your chest 🙂

I don’t mind at all if you’re talking about yourself, or what you’re worried about 🌺

I’m ok thank you - emotionally I don’t have any real concerns today; it’s a mentally quiet and restful day. I have fatigue from physical illness, but that doesn’t bother me emotionally today at all ☺️

Yes I do understand regarding staying with one or two threads 🙂

I’m currently watching the rest of a movie, then I’ll do some study, then I’ll have some dinner.. I was going to go for a drive, but I feel tired today.

what about you?
is there anything you’d like to do that might help with how you’re feeling?
I think I read somewhere you’re going for a swim sometime?

sorry - lots of questions! 🙂🌺

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That is true, but there is a bit of weight to it all.

Thank you. I appreciate you saying you don't mind.

That's good to hear. Well, at least one of us is okay. I hope physical illness stuff get's better for you.

What's the movie?

Yeah, I'm trying to get there to go to the pool.

I don't know what else I'll do.

I know tonight won't be fun. I'm so over feeling like this. @Former-Member

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What’s the rest of your day looking like @Birdofparadise8

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Trying to motivate myself to go for a swim @ArraDreaming

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Yes, I do understand @Birdofparadise8 regarding the weight of it 🌺


No worries, that’s what we are here for.

Whenever you tag me, I’ll get back to you as soon as I am able 🙂

thanks heaps - and I hope things improve for you regarding how you feel… I think if you do get the energy to go for a swim it might be a nice change for a little bit 🙂


I’m watching one of the many Spider-Man movies.. I have zero idea where it fits within the entire chronicles of Spider-Man so I’m trying to put it together alongside the others like a jigsaw puzzle while I watch it!


I have had a quick preview look at the two Netflix shows you recommended, and they look pretty good so I’ll start either of those later on 🙂

I reckon pop out for a swim, and then revisit how you’re feeling after that…what do you think? 🌺🙂

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A swim sounds nice…. @Birdofparadise8 actually, I might see if my boys want to go to the pool this afternoon…. Great idea

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Yeah, I think I will do that. @Former-Member

Have a look at these links they might help.

https://www.ign.com/articles/how-to-watch-the-spider-man-movies-in-chronological-order

https://editorial.rottentomatoes.com/guide/marvel-movies-in-order/

You should also look at utopia. It's so funny. It's on Netflix.

Thank you, @Former-Member. I do appreciate you getting back to me when you can.

Yeah, the pool is fun @ArraDreaming

It's right next to uni, and I get in for free, so it's so good.

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