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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Sorry to hear you’re not feeling the best right now @creative_writer 💜🌺

is there anything that’ll help to chat about, if you feel comfortable to do so? 🙂

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@Birdofparadise8 I will be princess 😘

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Right okay I get what you mean @Former-Member

Hey @ENKELI

I'm pleased. How was your day?

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No worries @Birdofparadise8 🙂🌺🙌🏻

how was the salad? (I hope I got that right - it was couscous?) 🙂

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Getting there @Former-Member

Did you see what @creative_writer said to me and I said to her?

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@Birdofparadise8 not much happening, doing job applications.

I lead such an uninteresting life!

How are you today? Did you get your presentation down to 3 mins?

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Yes dearest, I just went back through the posts @Birdofparadise8 🌺🙂

Is there something in particular you’d like me to focus on? 🙂

otherwise, I’d just like to kindly let you know I’ll be flitting around the forum for at least a few more hours this evening, if that is helpful in some way? 🌺🙂

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I'm sure you do @ENKELI

Nearly I just need to get the conclusion down.

There is also time for questions at the end. AH, I hate that. I can't answer on the spot like that.

Oh well like what you thought about the rejection and abandonment stuff @Former-Member

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Made sense @Birdofparadise8 🙌🏻🙂🌺

life comes with wrinkles that aren’t able to be ironed out all at once 🙂💜

Giving yourself time, going gently, and knowing that despite how it may feel (eg: rejection feelings), we are still here 🌺🙂

I did read that your psychologist hasn’t placed much emphasis on working with rejection/abandonment, did I get that right?
if so, I was wondering how you feel about letting him know this is a priority area for you, that you’d really like to do some work on (if that’s what you’d like to do)? 🤗🌺

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Well, we have talked about rejection a bit, but when I've also mentioned abandonment, it doesn't seem to be discussed.

It's not like anyone has abandoned me, I don't think. So maybe that's why.

My parents and the rest of the family are fine.

@Former-Member what are your thoughts?

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