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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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@Birdofparadise8 same with me. I notice it in others but not myself. I think that's normal of everyone.

I had a friend say to me once that the flaws we pick in others are the flaws we have ourselves. I try not to do it anymore, like I am trying not to talk about the ex friend. But I've been having dreams about her lately and it's so difficult. I've just been keeping it to myself except for now and trying to cope.

I like all sorts of shows, so long as they have a good plot line. I'll pretty much watch anything. Catching up on my childhood and youth when I never watched TV!

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I'm sorry you're having dreams about her. Are they bad?

Once you're done, you should look for it. @ENKELI

What are you doing tomorrow?

I have uni and seeing my psych. It's going to be a big appointment with all that's happened.

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@Birdofparadise8 all good, I'm sure there is a reason for the dreams I need to work out.

I am not doing much tomorrow, collect my prescriptions, go to the shop. I want to sort through my summer clothes and pack them away now that the hot weather has pretty much gone.

I can imagine your session will be a tough one tomorrow. What time is it?

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Really already, what is the temp there? I thought it would still be hot.

It's 1:45 until 2:45. If he is on time. @ENKELI

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@Birdofparadise8 the temp is around 30 degrees each day for the next week.

Doesn't mean I'll do it, if I make a plan it is more likely to happen. Like I said, motivation is very low at the moment.

I'll try and be around after your appointment.

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That's hot for me @ENKELI

What do you class as cold?

Thank you I'd appreciate that.

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@Birdofparadise8 anything 30 and under is good for me so long as I have a fan.

I am going to go to bed shortly but will have my phone with me

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What temp is it in winter @ENKELI

All good I'm in bed as well. Insomnia is the worst.

You're going to bed early. I do hope you're okay and you can always talk to me about it.

Night @ENKELI

Thank you for the chat. I really appreciate it. You mean so much to me.

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@Birdofparadise8 aw thanks. You mean a lot to me too 🤗

I've been really tired the past few days, I'm hoping the new medication will help.

It doesn't get as cold as Melbourne here but it can get chilly.

The last time I was in Melbourne we had a hail storm that was more like snow!

I'm also trying to free up.space in my wardrobe. I have a walk in robe for 2 people and it's so full I have a rack in my room for the excess clothes I have. It's ridiculous!

I need to stop buying clothes 😂

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That is so funny @ENKELI

You could compress your summer ones into those airtight bags.

I hope the meds help.

Night

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