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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Yeah that’s good then @amber22

I have two jobs one at a diabetes center and the other Covid at home I do administrative work and help book people in for appointments. I communicate with nurses and doctors to help them out with anything I talk to patients about diabetes and assisted them as best I can.

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That’s cool @amber22
I don’t feel well now so I’m on the couch

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@Captain24, I'll have to email you as I don't know how to upload a PDF of the affirmations and accomodations ❤️

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Oh wow 2kms away, that would freak me out! That sounds like a good plan for the rest of the week, I hope that you get confirmation from your work before the weekend so that you can relax for a bit.

I am just working the rest of the week, and then this weekend I have an anniversary dinner this weekend with my partner. It is our 5 year anniversary. We are going for a nice dinner on the water which I am looking forward to ending my week with 🙂 @Captain24

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Aw no, make sure you get an early night if you can. Sleep is the best thing for this kind of situation if you can with the kids! @ArraDreaming

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Oh wow, what an amazing job, good on you for doing that! @Birdofparadise8 Make sure you rest a bit before you go to work tomorrow, good that you have a later start than usual. What are you planning for the morning?

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That sounds really nice @amber22. congratulations on 5 yrs. I’ve never made it to one! Lol. I must just be to hard to get along with.

I get to see the water in 6 weeks! I love the ocean.

2 kms was the closest I’ve ever been. I wasn’t too worried it was on the opposite side of the road. They had water bombers on it. I’m in a new estate on the outskirts of town so they would have protected us.

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Not hard to get along with at all, you're lovely company! Just that you haven't found the right one yet, it took me a lot of heartbreak to find the one I'm with now, and a lot of patience (which i don't have a lot of!!) @Captain24

Yay! Are you going on holiday to the ocean, or a visit there? The water will be so nice, especially if the weather is still hot.

Oh wow that sounds crazy, what a thing to experience!

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It took my nan until she was in her 60’s so I guess I’ve still got 20yrs! @amber22. I was hard to get along with. I’ve always been either depressed or over the top happy. You just never knew how I would be daily. Now I understand why!

I’ve gotten so use to being in my own that I don’t even know if I want anyone?

Yes a holiday for a week. It’s where my brother lives. So once again I’m going with my parents, which is really hard as they are my biggest triggers along with my brother! But I get to swim in the ocean and Pixie loves it. The place we are staying in has 2 living areas so hopefully it’ll be easier to get my own space.

Water bombers are pretty standard here. When bushfire season is at its worst there is one stationed here. We are close to the blue mountains so it heads off there when needed.

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Yes it is crazy, you can meet someone at any age and at such an unexpected time. It is really beautiful, but not something to worry about, especially if you aren't sure if you want someone right now. You're all good on your own, with Pixie of course. How is Pixie going btw?

A holiday to the water sounds amazing. That will be challenging with your triggers, is there anything or any strategies that you plan for if you get triggered while away? Hopefully you can have a lot of time with Pix by the water @Captain24

The Blue Mountains are beautiful! I've been for a holiday before, very cold when I went though!!

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