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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Yeah I like the actual book @RiverSeal

Yeah, I might.

Yes, I do on my Mac and phone. Mmm sounds interesting I'll have to have a look tomorrow.

I'll have a look at the app.

Hahahaha I'm sure you're doing good.

Okay, have a good night.

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Sorry @Birdofparadise8 for not responding. Am away at the moment with not too good reception. Will check in when I can

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PT is Public Transport @Birdofparadise8 just shorten way of saying it. I think it's a Melbourne thing! RiverSeal

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Oh yeah I'm sorry I forgot about that @Snowie

Ah silly me @RiverSeal

I'm still going with my assignment, It's supposed to be an essay plan but I think I'm nearly writing the actual essay lol.

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Yes, it's very good. In hobart, there is only buses lol and they sometimes don't turn up.

Have you ever been to Hobart @RiverSeal?

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The buses are the same in Cairns and don't run sometimes and to only other option is taxis or an Uber.

I used to go to Hobart for work around 2007 when I was a sales rep and Tassie and Victoria were my areas. It's very nice but it's not Melbourne! My sister just moved there so I may visit her at some stage, but we'll see @Birdofparadise8

I like to visit different places, but Melbourne is definitely my home! I like to catch the train and go a spend the weekend in regional Victoria sometimes or over a long weekend.

RiverSeal

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Oh I know defentily isn't melbounre @RiverSeal

Do you live in an apartment or house?

My Parents are wanting to build a house in a subdivision that is coming up soon not too far away from me. I would love to do that as well after uni, but in Melbourne, I don't think I could afford a house only an apartment.

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Yeah, I live in an apartment @Birdofparadise8 and I'm the same I could not afford to buy a house in Melbourne, but I don't really want too. I have lived in apartments for about 25 years, and I love it. There is no work to do in the garden and I like the community feel I have in them. I live in new apartment building and that is much better than an older building. I find it cheaper because it's more insulated and I don't have to use the aircon and heater at all really. And so much easier to clean that an old apartment so I save time and money there too.

That's nice your parents are building a new house and somewhere you can visit that's new maybe.

Do you like Hobart or did you before you came to Melbourne for uni?

RiverSeal

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I did like hobart before I moved, but Melbourne is so good. I just love how busy it is, the transport is amazing and I wouldn't need a car, if I moved back down to hobart I would have to buy a car.

At the end of they day, it will depend on where I can get a job as a dietician saying that I get into my master's and even pass that.

Do you live on your own? Or do you have a house mate or partner @RiverSeal?

Tell me if you want me to stop asking you questions.

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It's ok @Birdofparadise8 ask away!

I live on my own have done for over 20 years now. I have some long-term partners in that time but did not want to live with them. I have lived with two partners, and I don't think I could do it again now that I am so independent and have all my own stuff and used to things my way. Who knows what the future brings so we'll see how it works out!

I love Melbourne for the same reasons and love living without a car and just getting around on PT. I have owned a car in over 25 years and don't really drive anymore when I go and see my parents. I used buses and Ubers or taxis when I am up there.

You can always come back to Melbourne if you have to move somewhere for work when you have more experience. Where would you consider going if you took a job once finish uni? Could be an adventure and a fresh start! I've had my share of those 🙂

RiverSeal

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