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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor08 Nov 2022, 6:51 pm AEDT

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor21 Dec 2023, 12:15 am AEDT

Re: Not Coping

What do you mean ‘I won't lie yes that was I waned to but but I'm scared’

When you say the following ‘I only stopped the meds because I don't need them to fix or help me why should I make everyone happy just to get them?

The feeling of just thinking about it makes me feel happy and alive’

I wonder how are you mentally now since stopping your medication?

Are things worse or better?

Obviously it's your choice to take them or not and no one should force you to, but I'm just curious to know about the difference you see.

No I'm not upset or triggered what make you say that? @bartart23

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bartart23Senior Contributor21 Dec 2023, 12:18 am AEDT

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In case I am been careful so I don't trigger anyone

I don't know how to say it without people panicking

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor21 Dec 2023, 12:21 am AEDT

Re: Not Coping

Okay that's totally understandable @bartart23

Are you doing anything today/tomorrow lol.

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bartart23Senior Contributor21 Dec 2023, 12:24 am AEDT

Re: Not Coping

No staying home 😊

What about you

Sometimes I wish I never existed 😔

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor21 Dec 2023, 12:29 am AEDT

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You haven't left your home for a bit right?

You safe? I like that you exist.

I'm going to see granny at the cemetery @bartart23

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bartart23Senior Contributor21 Dec 2023, 12:33 am AEDT

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Yes that's right I haven't left my house for a while

See your granny tomorrow today she's watching over you 💕

May I ask are you the same age as me? I think you said you were 21 right?

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bartart23Senior Contributor21 Dec 2023, 2:00 am AEDT

Re: depressed

Is it bad I am so numb I am so broken inside? 💔💔💔💔

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ENKELISenior Contributor21 Dec 2023, 3:41 am AEDT

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@Birdofparadise8 I didn't drop off presents.

I will probably spend the day alone because nobody understands why I should be so sad.

I'm used to having to deal with things alone, no one really cares about me and my feelings so I'm better off being alone and letting everyone else have a good day.

Having MH issues is just an excuse for bad behaviour or so my last boss told me.

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor21 Dec 2023, 6:01 am AEDT

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Thanks for sharing @Eve7

Has your mum settled in ok? Mum is doing well to be 94 and just moved to care. Hearing can be a challege and communication much easier face to face.

I assume you got home safe 🫶

Hope you got good rest 💚

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor21 Dec 2023, 9:05 am AEDT

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Ah okay @bartart23

I'm 20 - 21 next year.

Yeah, it will be nice to see her. Sad but I'll be okay I hope.

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