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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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bartart23Senior Contributor

Re: Not Coping

TW: DV, Hospital

Content/trigger warning
There's a dv in place and I accidentally run into my ex on when I was running from the hospital and the police saw us and thought we were talking we were only saying hey and that's it not that I like her or wanted to talk I got put in handcuffs and in the police car taken back to the hospital I got charged for seeing her I don't think it's fair
I hate them
My ex is a little bitch who got everything she wanted in the relationship
Sex money everything



Sorry if the words are not allowed I had no other of putting it without triggering people sorry if I do I'll be expecting a check in email now 😭

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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DV in domestic violence?

Were you running from a psych hospital?

That's not good. Why didn't she say you were talking as you passed by?

Oh, she used you a lot.

I'm sorry that sounds like it would be hard @bartart23

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bartart23Senior Contributor

Re: Not Coping

Yes domestic violence
Honestly I'm a person who would give anything to the other person in the relationship
I wouldn't say sex or money was good but I always feel if I don't do what they say something might happen
So yes I give her sex money everything

She brain wash me just like my family did

I couldn't care less I am just angry because she got everything and the judge believed her oh well
That doesn't make sense

On the other side I am heavily depressed
(Safe)

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Re: Not Coping

I'm sorry that she did that to you.

Did you file the DV or her?

What are you doing this afternoon @bartart23?

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JynxModerator

Re: Not Coping

Hey @bartart23 I'm sorry this is happening for you, sounds very heavy to have to deal with.

I've just added a spoiler tag/trigger warning to your post. You can do so too for future reference. When typing your message, see the three dots at the right hand side of the formatting bar - click them to expand the toolbar, then highlight parts of text you want hidden, and click the triangle with an exclamation point in it to pop them into a spoiler tag. Here's some screenshots to show it:

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Spoiler tag button. Just remember to highlight the text you want to hide before clicking 😁

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bartart23Senior Contributor

Re: Not Coping

It's on me the police put it on me
I hate it but I couldn't care less because I hate her guts I wish I never dated her I really wish I never had sex or slept with her it makes me feel disgusting


I might watch the Simpsons or a scary movie I don't know yet

I just brain wash myself and others

My dad did and brothers did it the most

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Wait, your dad and brother did things to you @bartart23

Oh, she did it to you.

That would be hard.

The Simpsons sounds good.

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bartart23Senior Contributor

Re: Not Coping

Omg it's you @Jynx hello I haven't seen you for a long time

Yes I wanted to talk to you but I am embarrassed now haha

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JynxModerator

Re: Not Coping

Hello @bartart23 all good just do whatever is comfortable for you 😊

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bartart23Senior Contributor

Re: Not Coping

  • Yes @Birdofparadise8 my dad and brothers did things and my birth lady too
  • I won't say anything as it's very triggering and yea
  • My old ex bf is doing the same now too
  • It's never ending
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