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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor

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Thank you for the insight @Birdofparadise8

I will check them out.

Well done on weight increase 👏

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Cool @Blackbird11

Ah, thank you. Not sure I'm going to go. I'm waiting for someone to come and pick up a parcel, but I don't know what time they will come.

I also just got my period, so I'm in a bit of pain.

I've got a few things to do. Maybe once I see my friend I might go.

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor

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 be gentle with yourself @Birdofparadise8

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Thanks @Blackbird11

I will.

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Is there a peer worker available to chat ? Or something I'm not about to lose it at court Mr judge 😭😭 him and my ex girlfriend are ganging up on me please 🥺 😭

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hi @Blackbird11

I got to see my friend today. It's been so long. You wouldn't believe he is back with the ex-BF. He said it's complicated as my friend doesn't want something long-term, whereas his ex or not-so-ex wants something long-term, so I'm unsure what's going to happen there. I just hope he doesn't get heartbroken again, as I care about him. He was really struggling when they broke up.

I've cleaned my room, done some washing and taken down all my posters.

The room is looking very sad.

How has your day been?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hi @bartart23

What's happening? Are you in court?

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Hey @Birdofparadise8 my day been okay i am angry at court and my ex girlfriend

I just finished in the shower 🚿 I did food shopping online because Christmas time isn't the best of me when I shop I yell at everyone little kids when they touched me or hit my ass I freak out

I jumped today at shadows

I am glad you seen your friends 😀

Hope you're okay

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Yea I was I've been to court many times honestly I just hate the judgement from them

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Why are you angry @bartart23?

That's good you've had a shower and done food shopping. Ah, okay, good idea to do it online then.

Yeah, it was nice to see him.

Are you in trouble with them or something to be in court?

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