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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor08 Nov 2022, 6:51 pm AEDT

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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ENKELISenior Contributor16 Dec 2023, 7:45 pm AEDT

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@Blackbird11 no, Perth. But wishing I was in Tassie. Or Canada!

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JynxModerator16 Dec 2023, 7:46 pm AEDT

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That's so okay @bartart23. Was just offering the space for you if you wanted to talk about trans stuff! Up to you 😊

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bartart23Senior Contributor16 Dec 2023, 7:49 pm AEDT

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Hey @Jynx yep I'm up for a chat about it ☺️ mind you I get shy and my spelling isn't good hope that's ok

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JynxModerator16 Dec 2023, 7:56 pm AEDT

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@bartart23 of course! Share only what you're comfortable with. Have you known you're trans for a while or is this a whole new realm for you?

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bartart23Senior Contributor16 Dec 2023, 8:00 pm AEDT

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Well @Jynx this is new to me but I've know I was never really told anyone because I was getting judge about dating a girl

I've always wanted to talk to someone who understands I never find anyone because of the judgement 😔

If that makes sense

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor16 Dec 2023, 8:02 pm AEDT

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I'd love to visit both WA and Canada @ENKELI

WA and NT only states in Australia I've not been to.

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JynxModerator16 Dec 2023, 8:11 pm AEDT

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@bartart23 It's so hard to find that sense of safety - especially with some people. And the trans community has been catching a lot of awful attention lately. But there's plenty of us around!

Have you ever spoken to the folks over at Qlife? They're really awesome for support around queer stuff, would definitely recommend.

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bartart23Senior Contributor16 Dec 2023, 8:18 pm AEDT

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Oh I am sorry I forgot this is your break time

And I have never heard of them before what do they do?
Don't mind me if I ask questions
I won't say much
Hope your still happy to chat about it and sorry if your uncomfortable

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bartart23Senior Contributor16 Dec 2023, 8:19 pm AEDT

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I hope that quick reply world @Jynx

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor16 Dec 2023, 8:29 pm AEDT

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Hey @Blackbird11 @ENKELI

You both still around?

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