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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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@Birdofparadise8 promise one thing - you won't apologise for bothering anyone. You are not annoying anyone and we would rather hear from you than not.

Chicken parmi, yum, if I'd have known I'd have invited myself over! 😅
I can only speak for myself but I find myself crying for no reason often these days. It might be in the middle of the day and nothing bad has happened, I just feel like crying.
Allow yourself the tears lovely, the quote I've attached is one I refer to often.


36 degrees and the air con in my car has died. Stupid thing is only 6 years old. Welcome to summer 😶

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Thank you @ENKELI

Haha, yeah, it was very yummy.

Yeah it's weird I don't know why it happens. I wish I did. I'm not saying it's good you cry like I am, but at least I'm not the only one. I'm sure a lot of others on here do as well.

Oh gosh. Where are you? I'm in Melbourne. That's not good. How long is the warranty?

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I am forever grateful to chat with you @Birdofparadise8

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Thank you @Blackbird11

I love how I have a good couple of days, and then it comes crashing down and burning, and I don't know why. I get my hopes up thinking things might turn around, and then that goes away.

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Life Is Full Of Up's And Downs

Life is full of up's and downs,

Like a rollercoaster ride,

Times of joy and times of frowns,

Through which we must abide.

Sometimes we reach the highest peak,

And life appears so grand,

But then we plummet fast and bleak,

And just can't understand.

But just like on that rollercoaster,

We must hold tight and ride,

For after every dip there's a ascent,

And our spirits will soon revive.

So when life seems to be crashing down,

And we just can't seem to find,

The strength to pick ourselves back up,

Let hope and resilience be our guide.

For up's and downs will always come,

But how we choose to cope,

Will determine our happiness,

And help us thrive and cope.

Matt Starking

@Birdofparadise8

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@Birdofparadise8 I'm in Perth. And the warranty of course is 5 years. Typical!

At least the weather is dropping down to the low 30s tomorrow.

No, you're definitely not the only one who cries for no reason. I'm sure there are plenty of others who may feel uncomfortable or embarrassed mentioning it. Good on you for speaking your feelings, sometimes that can help immensely.

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That is beautiful @Blackbird11

I don't know how you find such amazing quotes.

That's making me cry. That is very very true.

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Ah, hot there. I don't think I would cope there. It's hot here when it's in its 30s. I find that too much for me.

I'm used to Hobart, hahaha. I also don't have aircon here, so that doesn't help @ENKELI

What have you been up to?

You should see the quote @Blackbird11found it's beautiful.

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@ENKELI are you in Hobart?

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hey @Jynx I am here sorry I am late something had happened I am here now 😊

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