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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor

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Hi @Birdofparadise8

How's your day been?

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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It's ok 😊
Chat whenever you're free

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Good, I've applied for three jobs, been to the gym and looked around for some boxes. I went to kmart, Minimax, and a few other shops I've got 9 different sizes some are very small. I'll need some more I think.

I'm about to get dinner ready once I quickly run to Wollies for some salad and chips. I'll have a chicken parmi.

How did your study go @Blackbird11

Yeah I'm around @bartart23

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@bartart23 I am so sorry you've been messed around, May I ask what state you're in? I'm in WA and found that the MH system here is dreadful. I was put into a facility after an attempt and I "slipped through the cracks" as one of the nurses told me so I did not see a psychiatrist or psychologist for 2 weeks.

When they finally remembered I was there I had a 5 minute meeting with the psychiatrist who said I was fine and that I was being discharged. I hadn't even made it back to my room when a nurse demanded I get out of the facility.

I am like @Birdofparadise8 and don't understand much about being transgender but I'm happy to listen. I'm fairly new here but this forum has helped more than I imagined it could.

Be kind to yourself 😊

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Busy day 😁

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hi @ENKELI

Yeah, and now I'm crying @bartart23

I'm sorry.

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Yea I'm still getting to know everyone I don't know many people here

I just can't cope with life or anything I am tired of trying
Was in hospital recently [edited by moderator] I feel lost and unheard MH and hospital don't give a shit about anything
A mental health lady had laughed at me and said try hard enough again if that makes sense again sorry for being here

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Plus I think I've upset people with transgender

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor

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A very productive day for you @Birdofparadise8 well done!

Bunnings have moving boxes too.

I completed all my study ☺️🥳 so will have a free day tomorrow 🫶

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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What's wrong did I say something I am sorry 😞
Fuck I failed again stupid stupid me I will cry now
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