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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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JynxModerator

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@Birdofparadise8 Sorry to hear you're feeling so alone hun. Could you call someone? Maybe give KHL a buzz?

I'm not around for much longer, but you can always tag the next moderator if you need.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I don't have anyone and I'm speaking to my regular at KHL tomorrow night @Jynx

All good. I hope you'll have a good night.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Ahh 😩😭😥 I'm so stupid.

I misunderstood my uncle's text from yesterday, and he is actually free for longer than half an hour. I feel so dumb that I thought that. He meant he was free from 2:00 - 2:30 as a starting time.

I'm also feeling quite sad and alone.

He said the following.

"Saturday, I can do a catch-up at about 2-2:30. For a walk/drink."

I feel so stupid once I reread it after he told me. Am I the only one to interpret what he said as meaning he is only free for half an hour?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hi @tyme @Shaz51 @Blackbird11 @Bow @Kyle1 @outlander @creative_writer @fluffylight @Jynx

How are you all today?

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JynxModerator

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Chugging along @Birdofparadise8 how about you?

Been getting smashed by hayfever today, do you get hayfever? If you don't, living in Melbs might initiate it! I didn't have hayfever till I moved here lol.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8, today hasn’t been a good day. My body has been under a lot of stress from migraines, so I ended up with digestive issues and stomach pain. You probably can guess the result-moodiness.

@Jynx, I hope the Hayfever settles. I got a really bad bout too, but I learnt the hard way, I must take antihistamines or I’ll be sneezing, snotty and migrainey

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I'm sorry @creative_writer @outlander ive upset you in any way I didn't mean to and I hope you can forgive me. Can you let me know if I'm ever triggering to you I'll try my best to assess what I've said and rectify it. I'm really and truly so sorry.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I'm alright I suppose @Jynx

I do get hay fever sometime but I've been alright so far.

Sorry to hear that @creative_writer

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8, I haven’t been on as much simply because I’ve been tired. Don’t worry so much about triggering me, I’ve learnt that if I ever do feel triggered on the forums, I must walk away. I’ve had those moments, and I take responsibility if it does ever happen. Discussing MH can at times me triggering for the best of us even when we remain within community guidelines. You need to realise it’s not your fault if it does ever happen to me

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Okay thank you for that I still am very sorry.

Is everything okay? Have you been more tired because of the migraines? @creative_writer

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