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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Aww thank you @Melbcoffeesnob

I just want to say. I'm sorry if I upset you at all the other day or said anything triggering.

I wouldn't say I'm okay, but oh well. What's new, hey? Nothing. Still sick, and miserable.

It's been very hard. Did you see what I said about Friday?

I'm back home, oh so overwhelming, but I'll get there.

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Kyle1Senior Contributor

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im sorry @Birdofparadise8

I have to dash out for a little. A bit of a minor emergency for the teens...

I will endeavour to stay connected with you, OK? 🫂💃

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Okay, I hope everything is okay with your kids @Kyle1

Speak soon. I hope you're doing okay.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Anyone want to talk?

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor

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Hey @Birdofparadise8

I'm here if you want to chat?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hi @Blackbird11

How are you today?

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor

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Hi @Birdofparadise8

I have been flat out studying today. How has your day been?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Do you have an exam soon @Blackbird11?

I've done some art stuff, tried to study, tried not to cry, contemplated life, got upset with myself, kept thinking about Friday and why I'm feeling so bad and what I've done wrong in life to feel like this. But other than that not a lot really motivation has been so low. I haven't even done any of the cooking I said I would do. I had Weetabix for dinner tonight. I'm so not okay. I'm really not. I'm sorry.

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor

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No exams, just assessments due @Birdofparadise8

Maybe you need to step back and have a look at where you are. You are very loved and you matter. Be gentle with yourself you're only two? days out of hospital. Make things as easy as you can for yourself. You have done nothing wrong, you have purpose and meaning and you are important. Friday was hard it stings like ripping off a band aid. Wrap yourself back up with love, compassion and empathy. Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you. 💚

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I know, but it's so hard. I'm even crying about it right now @Blackbird11. I don't know how to move on.

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