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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hi @fluffylight

Thank you that means a lot to me.

I'm watching Carlton on TV with my dad so that's nice. I want to cry so bad but I can't now.

I’m just so so sad. I have a voicemail on my phone. I hope I can keep it. It was only from two weeks ago.

I have to go back to uni and work next week. I don't know how I'll cope with that.

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fluffylightSenior Contributor

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Aww 😞 @Birdofparadise8

I hope you can keep the voicemail too - sounds so precious to have with you 💛

Uni and work amongst everything else does sound hard to cope with.. is it something you are comfortable sharing with uni/work for some consideration around what you are going through? 🤔

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Work they are going to fire me on Monday @fluffylight

I have a job interview on Wednesday.

I've just been listening to it and its so sad how she deteriorated so quickly in two weeks.

I don't know what I'm going to do.

I'm so crushed. I need her so much. How will I ever get over her dying? I’m so heart broken.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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Hi @Birdofparadise8 💖🫂. Sending you healing vibes.

Hi @fluffylight, how are you? 🙂

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Re: Tw Not Coping

Thank you @creative_writer

I'm so utterly sad right now 😩😔😢

How will I ever get better?

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8, I know it doesn’t feel like it, but depression is very treatable. Things can get better, you just have to keep trying because you are worth it

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fluffylightSenior Contributor

Re: Tw Not Coping

Lots and lots of light to you @Birdofparadise8

And so many hugs your way - new journey ahead for you with new employment.. you are holding a lot I can really hear that 💛

I guess you never get over it.. for me that I guess I moved forward by always carrying my grandma with me wherever I go she will be with me

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Re: Tw Not Coping

Oh Im talking more about my nan @creative_writer

I had her funeral today.

Though yes my depression is bad as well.

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fluffylightSenior Contributor

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Hi @creative_writer
I am going okay! My free trial for prime finished - thinking if I want to renew to continue watching the office hehe

How are things with you?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Re: Tw Not Coping

Yeah I guess so @fluffylight

It's just so hard.

I'm not strong enough and my depression as well. I don't think I'll be okay.

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