Developing a support network

Thank you for your kind message Braveone and for sharing your experience xx

Hey @Anon1975

You're so welcome, the forums are such a great place to gain some more support ❤️

I'm not sure where you live, but I know there are a few like BumbleBFF and others on the app store. They are specifically designed for meeting like-minded people, and its great because you know the people online are wanting to meet you too!

There are also a few Facebook groups that you could join if you had a particular interest in something, and they usually try and do meet ups depending on what group it is. You can search for them in the search bar on the app.

In saying this, please be safe and access all situations properly before meeting up with anyone from online. I'm sure you are aware of this, but its always important to reiterate it as you never know the person on the other side of the screen.

Take care,
Amber22

Thank you amber22

Hey @Anon1975,

Feeling isolated is really tough and makes it hard to reach out when you're feeling down. I have felt like this before too. There are some great suggestions on here, so I won't repeat, but I can share one story about how I have dealt with isolation and feeling down....

I rescued a dog from the RSPCA and he has been full of surprises in the connections I have made through him. He has bought close and precious moments for myself with my kids while we play with him. I was most surprised through how many conversations and connections I have made while walking him. I have walked the same route for years and never spoke to anyone! People loves animals and fellow dog walkers often stop to chat. This made a world of difference for me during those times. The beauty of it as well is... you can stop to chat or if you don't feel up for it, you can keep walking alone and sometimes just being out is a mood changer. I understand not everyone is in a position to take on a pet, but maybe you could offer a dog walking service in your local area if ownership isn't for you? I believe that local shelters often look for volunteer walkers. Might be an opening to something special with your kids or an opening for some connection, without the pressure or even just an excuse for fresh air!

I am new to the forums and hope to see you around more. Connection is connection, in person or online, and from what I've heard, these forums are a very supportive community. Hope you have felt some connections on the forums already and can build from here x

Hi and welcome to the forums @Anon1975 👋

Loving the suggestions going on here …..