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Ex has moved on :(

Ex has moved on :(

Hi!
I’ve never reached out to anyone on anything like this before but I am feeling completely broken. Four weeks ago I asked my ex, the father of my kids (who I’m still in love with) if he had moved on. He replied “I’m not gonna lie I am seeing someone” .. since this day I have been completely heart broken I can’t even explain how I am feeling. He works away in Mt Isa for months & is coming back to see our daughters less & less but video calls them most nights.

All I can think about is him with someone else 24/7 feel like I’m in a deep dark hole I can’t get out of. I just can’t snap out of it. He knows I still love him but he doesn’t care. He knows I’ve been in hospital last week but did not text once to ask if I was ok or our daughters were ok. He knows Im not ok & upset but says nothing. He has never been able to communicate with me & is terrible at communicating wit most people.

I feel so worthless & sad. I don’t know how to act towards him & just wish I could win him back 😞 or get him to realise he wants to come home to me & my daughters. I gave everything to him but feel he never made any effort in return just continued to work away.

just don’t know what to do anymore 😞 😞 😞

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@tyme Wish I could, wish it would just bring me something to make me happy again 😔

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Hugs @Bee82 .

I'm here if you need a chat.

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Remember we also have our Drop-in counselling line you can access on 1800 187 263 - it might help you get some of those feelings out. They are available 10am-10pm M-F.

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Oh dear @Bee82 - I’ve just caught up.

I don’t know what is happening. Is he baiting you? What does he want? If he has a girlfriend, is he acting this way because something’s gone wrong with his other relationship?

I don’t know. I can only wait to hear.

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How did it go @Bee82 ? Thinking of you.

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@BPDSurvivor my daughters met the gf been wit her the past few days getting their nails done, going out for dinner, sleeping at their place 😥😥😥

im not in the mental health ward in the hospital 😥

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Awwww… @Bee82 , I’m so so so sorry to hear. It sounds so painful. I would be so cut, knowing my very own children had met the significant ‘other’.

I am also hurt he said those things to you when he came into the house. That’s so wrong.

Please @Bee82 , be kind to yourself. I know you are hurting, but please don’t let him have the pleasure of seeing you pine in a hospital bed.

Im so so so sorry. Hugs.

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How are you @Bee82 ?

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@BPDSurvivorthank you for checking in, I haven’t been good. When the ex dropped home my girls & they told me they had met the new gf, got their nails done wit her, went out for dinner, she slept over etc etc .. I did something stupid & have been in the adults mental health hospital last week & then had to have hernia surgery after 😪 having a week off work but I’m just so miserable atm & nothing makes me happy. I really don’t think I can move forward my heart is so broken.

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Hey @Bee82 - I'm thinking of you and so wanted to check-in. Are you out of hospital?

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