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Ex has moved on :(

Ex has moved on :(

Hi!
I’ve never reached out to anyone on anything like this before but I am feeling completely broken. Four weeks ago I asked my ex, the father of my kids (who I’m still in love with) if he had moved on. He replied “I’m not gonna lie I am seeing someone” .. since this day I have been completely heart broken I can’t even explain how I am feeling. He works away in Mt Isa for months & is coming back to see our daughters less & less but video calls them most nights.

All I can think about is him with someone else 24/7 feel like I’m in a deep dark hole I can’t get out of. I just can’t snap out of it. He knows I still love him but he doesn’t care. He knows I’ve been in hospital last week but did not text once to ask if I was ok or our daughters were ok. He knows Im not ok & upset but says nothing. He has never been able to communicate with me & is terrible at communicating wit most people.

I feel so worthless & sad. I don’t know how to act towards him & just wish I could win him back 😞 or get him to realise he wants to come home to me & my daughters. I gave everything to him but feel he never made any effort in return just continued to work away.

just don’t know what to do anymore 😞 😞 😞

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@tyme aww thank u, yes I’m out of hospital but still feel like I’m really struggling… nothing makes me happy & just can’t eat 😞

How are u going?

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Hi @Bee82 -

Happy to hear you are out of hospital, but it doesn't sound good that you are not able to eat. What did the hospital say on discharge?

Remember, during the week, you are welcome to phone our drop-in line on 1800 187 263 (M-F 10am-10pm).

I think at this time, it's about working towards getting back on track. Not only for your sake, but your children as well.

Sitting with you,

tyme

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@tymeIm trying but I just don’t know how 😞

trying to do all the right things see the psychiatrist, see the psychologist but still feel so low!

anyway thank u for checking in!

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Hey @Bee82 , I’m sorry you feel so low still. I somehow feel how hurt you are. Yet I also recognise that your ex is happily enjoying life in another part of the state.

Please look after yourself. You deserve it. We cannot change the actions of someone else, but we can make a difference to our own actions.

I care about you and think about you often. You are not alone.

Hugs, BPDSurvivor

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@BPDSurvivor @Thank you so much X

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Did you go to work today @Bee82 ?

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@BPDSurvivor No I’m going to try going back Thursday.

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All the best with that @Bee82 - might help you get your mind off things.

Please take care. I’ll be thinking of you.

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@BPDSurvivor thank you so much. I’m really hoping so. You take care also.

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Hey @Bee82 ,

I wanted to pop in to see how you are going? I haven't heard from you in a while.

Hope you are okay.

Here's a hug for you.

Hugs, tyme

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