Ex has moved on :(

@Bee82 ffs i post a lizzo song which tells you girl what to do and the powers that be take it off ...... give him the flick you are only courting misery if you fall for this.

Oh @Bee82 - I'm so sorry to hear how confusing this must all be for you.

For someone to walk out on you, then come back with all the additions? That doesn't make sense to me either.

However, I am reading through the posts here and do you think it is because you gave him space, he now realises things are not working out for him, so he wants to return because you have it better?

Maybe ignoring him a bit made him realise?

As much as I'm happy for you, I'm also very confused...

Are the girls returning to you tomorrow? Or is that what you are 'fearing'?

@tyme he has a gf so I don’t know why he said this …

last week we had a huge argument on the phone & I think sent him a long text telling him how I felt about him then when he picked the girls up he comes into my house (which he never does) and does all that. I’ve also lost ALOT of weight since he last sore me (due to all this)

He never msg this week to ask if I was ok after seeing me in such a mess, he’s probably too busy wit his new gf & my daughters. If I was the gf I wouldn’t be happy with what he said to me.

@Chris1969 What do u mean off? I doubt he would do couples counseling if he has a gf ..

he has a gf so I don’t know why he said this …

last week we had a huge argument on the phone & I think sent him a long text telling him how I felt about him then when he picked the girls up he comes into my house (which he never does) and does all that. I’ve also lost ALOT of weight since he last sore me (due to all this)

He never msg this week to ask if I was ok after seeing me in such a mess, he’s probably too busy wit his new gf & my daughters. If I was the gf I wouldn’t be happy with what he said to me.

Maybe his new gf is not such a good choice? @Bee82 I really don't know 🙂

Just take it easy. Don't think too much about it - it might stress you out more.

While your girls are away, I hope you can do something nice for yourself. Coffees, nails, hairdressers?

@tyme I’m pretty sure he is seeing his gf while he has my daughters as he will have to share his time in Brisbane between the girls n her as he works in mt isa for a mth sometimes longer at a time 😔

they come home tomorrow & I’m so scared to see him again.

OK, so if he has a GF, then he shouldn't be talking to you like that. He's giving you hope and if there is none, that is cruel. I suspect he's largely thinking about himself.

My head is spinning @Bee82 - I really don't understand his actions.

Let's just wait and see about tomorrow.

Anyway, maybe you could tell him you don't want to speak to him tomorrow? Text him tonight?

@tyme I dunno, my guess is he will text tomorrow when he is going to drop the girls home. Maybe I should just wait & see what he is like & see if my daughters tell me they met the gf 😔

Take a breath @Bee82 - who knows what surprises tomorrow will bring.