@Gypsy11 hi there i have a habit of sending posts to the wrong people so hope this hits the right landing strip.. mate it sounds like youve really been put through it .. a big hug from me buddy, and i have to tip my hat to you. asking for help with anything can be a real stump jumper. ive only been on this site for a few weeks, and found it by accident, when i was trying to find a dating site for autistic, intellectualy disabled people. first time on a computor and first time on a social site.. if you ever come across my old letters here you will be in no doubt, if they let me in the door, they will welcome you with open arms... my farm animals used to have to listen to all my hair brain schemes and maniacal mutterings.. now i just bewilder these people.. .. my animals won a reprieve, sane forum folk take more head ache pills.... its a win win... its a good place to spill, vent, write, create, and,,.. they cant find me to lock me up !... all that aside, i really hope you catch a break mate.. cockatoos to comedy, poetry to pole dancing. grab it .. use it.. a whirl wind off well wishes headed your way from tonys at moon base one..