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I have been struggling a lot lately with suicidal thoughts. It’s become a daily occurrence and it’s been really overwhelming to cope. I am safe right but having to fight this is very exhausting. I feel so trapped, I am tired of living in pain, fear and shame. I feel like a burden to people and unimportant.
@Former-Member I am glade with have SANE forums, it’s been a safe and supportive place ❤️.
I have difficulty finding a safe place in real life. I just don’t really that space in real life. I don’t feel safe around people. I hate being vulnerable. My mind has been keeping me safe for so long, it’s what I’ve known. Being alone feels safer but it gets lonely feeling like I need to be on guard when people are around. I felt the emotions overwhelm during my class today, , at least I was doing it from home today.
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Unknown userMember
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Yes it is good to have this site and yes I too feel better away from people and it does get lonely at times.
I'm lucky I have a little dog that is my best mate maybe a pet would be good for you if you are so inclined.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member glade you are finding this site a safe place to connect to others with similar experiences.
It’s just so suffocating. Like I feel like it feels impossible to feel safe, I can tell my mind it’s okay, but my body won’t agree.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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I do like cats. So maybe a cat would be good. Furbabies can make a difference.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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Today has been a struggle. I wonder when it’ll get easier 😔.
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tymeModerator
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I'm here if you need a chat @creative_writer
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@tyme I don’t know how I’ll ever feel safe in myself or around other people. I wish I could feel safe when I am safe but I just don’t. Hyperarousal and hypoarousal (i.e., disassociation) is what I know. Kind of spent my time flipping between the two.
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tymeModerator
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Makes sense @creative_writer . That was my life a few years back. I lived on the extremes. When things were good, they were very very good, and when things were bad, they were terrible.
I'm slowly working my way out of this way of living...but it takes time.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@tyme It’s more like being super anxious or being numb and disassociating. Both ends are crappy at the end of the day. Like I’m never okay or good and haven’t been for a while. It’s torture waking about and hard to get myself moving because I’m paralysed by physical and emotional pain.
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tymeModerator
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This is probably a silly question, but you've seen a professional in the past, right? @creative_writer . Anything come of it?
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