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creative_writerSenior Contributor
I have been struggling a lot lately with suicidal thoughts. It’s become a daily occurrence and it’s been really overwhelming to cope. I am safe right but having to fight this is very exhausting. I feel so trapped, I am tired of living in pain, fear and shame. I feel like a burden to people and unimportant.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
@Snowiedoing a little better. I hope you are doing okay tonight ❤️ . I had dinner and did some self-care stuff.
@Former-MemberI really need to learn to not feel guilty when I go ahead with my own decisions. I think I have this annoying "people pleaser" characteristic ingrained in me. Just been taking it easier and doing soothing things, like grounding work, breathing, relaxing imagery, and praying. I hope your evening is going well for you ❤️
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SnowieSenior Contributor
Glad to hear you did some self care @creative_writer and had dinner.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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hanamiSenior Contributor
Morning @creative_writer
Sorry to hear you were so upset last night. Are you any better this morning? I can imagine you're pretty exhausted.
thinking of you
Hanami
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Eve7Senior Contributor
Sending hugs @creative_writer
🫂🤗❤️
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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hanamiSenior Contributor
@creative_writer that's so tough. Having to hide how you're feeling. Do you have any plans for today?
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Unknown userMember
@creative_writer, that really hits home for me. I remember trying to cry silently as a kid.
It seems like you've had to work on your inner resilience and strength to be self-reliant. I grew up thinking I couldn't rely on anyone for help, so I focussed on becoming independent. It took me a long time to deconstruct those feelings and trust others, after I found a sense of safety.
Not sure if that resonates with you?
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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❤️ I hear that @creative_writer. I hope knowing others have and do feel similarly is something of a comfort.
I hope the session goes well today!
And shopping too! What kind of shoes are you thinking?
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