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creative_writerSenior Contributor
I have been struggling a lot lately with suicidal thoughts. It’s become a daily occurrence and it’s been really overwhelming to cope. I am safe right but having to fight this is very exhausting. I feel so trapped, I am tired of living in pain, fear and shame. I feel like a burden to people and unimportant.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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SnowieSenior Contributor
I hardly ever cry @creative_writer
I can't remember the last time I cried. I have never cried in front of my psych or pdoc. I think I just close all my emotions down and hide them away.
I am the exact opposite to my mum. She gets very emotional but uses it against me. I don't have a good relationship with her.
I think we all deal with our emotions in different ways. I always think that maybe letting my emotions out might help me.
Crying is certainly not a weakness. You have nothing to worry about. My Dad used to cry and he was one of the strongest person I ever knew.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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SnowieSenior Contributor
@creative_writer you should never be ashamed of crying. It is not a measure of our strength.
I'm sorry you can't get your needs met at the moment, but do hold hope for you.
You deserve it and it isn't a lot to ask for.
I can understand not being comfortable around people. I feel that way too sometimes.
We all deserve support.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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SnowieSenior Contributor
You are worthy and loveable enough @creative_writer
But it is so hard to see that within ourselves.
I grew up in a loving home too but still felt out of place. The only one I was close to was my Dad and he has passed now.
It is so easy to see that strength in others but not in ourselves. In the short time I have known you I see so much strength and courage in you. Despite not getting your needs met, you have still managed to continue and also to support others. You have already overcome so much.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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SnowieSenior Contributor
Sorry @creative_writer fell asleep last night.
My Dad passed away almost 8 years ago now, but I still miss him. He was the rock in the family. I think he kept our family together.
It is easier to see the strength in others besides yourself. Qualities I often see in others I cannot see in myself. And even when people tell you your strengths, we find it hard to believe them. We are funny creatures!!!
I hope today goes a little better for you hon. Please take care of yourself, you are super important to us 💌
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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SnowieSenior Contributor
Hi @creative_writer
I hope the rest of your day is going ok.
I managed to have a shower and wash my hair this morning. A big achievement for me and I feel much cleaner.
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