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Struggling: TW suicide

Struggling: TW suicide

I have been struggling a lot lately with suicidal thoughts. It’s become a daily occurrence and it’s been really overwhelming to cope. I am safe right but having to fight this is very exhausting. I feel so trapped, I am tired of living in pain, fear and shame. I feel like a burden to people and unimportant.

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Sounds like you have some good strategies for you it @creative_writer. Are they helping tonight?

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@Former-Member the challenging part, yes. Need to still work on self-compassion, it’s hard for me to feel like I am worthy and that it’s okay to reach out for help. I think it’s not so much I need someone to talk to, but someone safe to hug and cry on. But I just haven’t found that safe person yet. I guess trauma makes it hard to even feel comfortable being vulnerable even around people that are close to you too. Sometimes it’s not so much words but presence.

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Re: Struggling: TW suicide

the self-compassion will come @creative_writer ❤️

I feel you about not having someone special there. I found it really lonely when I was experiencing that.

What do you think would be different if you had a presence or someone there with you?

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@Former-Member self-compassion is a journey for sure ❤️

I think these emotions need to be let out so that my heart feels lighter. There is a huge difference in falling apart when you are alone in bed and falling apart in front of someone who cares and willing to comfort you. I feel like having someone is more with you is more cathartic. But the problem is, I only really feel the most safe crying alone.

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@creative_writer, I hear that it's super important to you to have that at some point. No need to answer, but I wonder what small changes you can make to get there over time?

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@Former-Member I'm not sure if there is any way to get there without working through my trauma. I experience a lot of anxiety around people, I disassociate often too. I think it will be a process, it's not as simple as putting myself out there and meeting new people. If I cannot connect with people, it makes it hard for relationships to progress any further.

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It's so tricky @creative_writer ❤️ I know you'll get there over time

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@Former-Member I hope so ❤️

Feeling depressed and energised at the same time, haven’t sleep well for the past two days either. I don’t know if I’ve gone in a mixed mood state. Along with that, I’ve been processing trauma, and it’s hard. I don’t know why it took me so long to realise certain things. I don’t know what to say, I fear, if I talk about it, it’ll be hard to contain.

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Hi @creative_writer,

Sounds like you have a few conflicting feelings going on at the moment. I know for me when I don't sleep well for a couple of days I struggle physically and emotionally.

It also sounds like you have a bit on your mind. I find things like trauma can bring up feelings and thoughts that may be difficult to process alone - perhaps it would be better for you to discuss this with someone on your team who is trained to support you through the process.

I hope you are okay and your feelings of depression subside.

Hugs,

FloatingFeather

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@FloatingFeather my psych will be away for the next month. I have appointments in a counsellor meanwhile but I don’t know the counsellor very well so it’s really hard to talk about personal things with her. I have to wait until I can get in with a psychiatrist and it will be a new psychiatrist, someone I’ve never seen before.
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