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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Hey @Acanthiza story about your mood. I hope you can lift it up. Did you get much sleep or did the pondering keep you awake.

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Hey @NatureLover

Im hoping you are ok?

Thinking of you

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So I’ve just cried all the way through my psych appointment. It was pretty tough.

I come out from the appointment to a missed called from the hospital. I go in on Thursday. I’m crying. It’s now real. I’m so scared.

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Hey @Captain24 it's understandable to be scared, I think I would be too but try and remember you'll be surrounded by support. What could you do today to calm the nerves? 💝

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Can you get to the beach @Captain24 you mentioned last week it was relaxing for you?

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I know it’s what I need. @Paperdaisy. It doesn’t make it any easier though. I don’t know what I can do.

I have so much to do to organise to get ready that there is no time for self care. But getting things ready is adding to the anxiety.

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I hear you @Captain24 have you been before or is this the first time?

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I was on on holidays at the beach @Paperdaisy and I’m back home now so I don’t have that luxury.

This is my first time. People on here have told me what their experiences have been so I’m not going in blind. But it’s still the unknown. Can I do it? Can I cope? Will I be able to connect? All that sort of stuff.

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Ah I get ya @Captain24

The fear of the unknown is a very real thing but anxiety isn't bad, it keeps us safe. It will be a bit strange at first, I would imagine, but I've also heard really good things from people I support and it's an opportunity to learn and heal. It's scary, but there are a lot of good things in life that are scary.

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I hope it’s a good thing @Paperdaisy. I don’t want to be going through all this anxiety for nothing. My problem is I have a phobia of hospitals. I can’t really explain the fear.

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