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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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BowSenior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

We have so many leftovers too @Captain24 and it’s pretty much just me and mum to eat them cause D is so fussy.

hope you can have the majority of tomorrow to yourself to just chill. You certainly deserve it after today.

hey I can relate. But let’s not think about that now. We got through the day and survived.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@Captain24 wrote:

And that’s a wrap!!! All done and dusted. Now my house is my own and no more jobs to do..

I got through it. Plus added bonus, no comments from my mum tonight.

That's great, well done @Captain24 !

Sorry you feel so exhausted and sick though...is that from eating the unusual amount of food?

Hope today feels a bit better...

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’ve just had 10.5 hrs sleep. @NatureLover It was so good. I’m sitting on the lounge trying to will myself to have a shower and go to the supermarket for a couple of things for work tomorrow.

Yes that’s why I felt disgustingly sick. But today is a new day.

How are things in your neck of the woods?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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10.5 hours, that's great!

Hope your ED doesn't get worse now due to yesterday's eating... 🤞

Things are OK here thanks, very glad Christmas is over for another year!

@Captain24

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Yep glad it’s done. @NatureLover Now it’ll probably be 12 months till I have house guests again. Unless my brother comes which he probably won’t.

Hope you have a great day. Do you have much planned?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad you made it through the day @Captain24 Take that as a huge success.

You must have needed the sleep.

I hope today is going ok for you 💜

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Today is ok @Snowie. I have to duck into town and grab some stuff for work tomorrow.

I’m waiting on mum to come and pick up leftovers and then I feel the need to get some more sleep. I am still exhausted. I think it’s all the pressure I put on myself and the crash after it.

I do have to say though that yesterday and today the SI has been really good. I’d be happy enough to not wake up but have no intention to do it to myself.

How is your day going? Do you get to just chill after yesterday?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It probably would be the pressure @Captain24 You had a really busy day yesterday so no wonder you are still tired. An afternoon nap might be a good idea.

I'm glad you SI is better. It's nice when we can get some relief from it.

My day is going ok, just chilling today after yesterday being so busy. Just doing some packing for when we go away.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Am so glad to hear your SI has been good, @Captain24 ! 🙂

@Captain24 wrote:

Hope you have a great day. Do you have much planned?

I am just at home now till tomorrow when I volunteer. I love being at home, I'm a homebody. Plus I have agoraphobia lol. But I can still go out, just not for long or too far away.

I hope work today goes well for you...

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Wishing you a good day today hon @Captain24

@NatureLover I hope you day goes well too

Sending lots of 💕💕

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