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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Happy Christmas @Captain24

I know it's a busy day for you so will leave some 💗💗💗for you.

Take care hon

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Thanks @NatureLover @Bow @Snowie.

I hope today is going well for you all and your kids are having a ball.

I hope your volunteering went well @NatureLover.

Ao I managed to cook most of lunch correctly except mum did have to say ‘well I do it this way’ but only once. So that’s a win. She did help serve it all up though and clean up what couldn’t go in the dishwasher.

They have now gone for a couple of hours so I have some peace.

Now I can rest my aching back before starting all over again. Most of tonight’s prep is done though. It’s just having to make small talk with my annoying aunt. I actually call her cranky to her face.

My ED is being triggered immensely though. My mum and her carry on isn’t helping.

I hope the rest of the day goes swimmingly for you all.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Rest up @Captain24

One down one to go

You are almost done

💌💌

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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You've done so well, @Captain24 ! And it sounds like your mum could've been nastier, so that's good so far... 🤞

Hope your ED can make it through the day without getting any worse, by some miracle...

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BowSenior Contributor

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Well done @Captain24 sounds like it went all ok considering what you expected.
I hope that you can take a few moments to yourself before doing it all again later.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’m just chilling at home alone now @Bow. I was thinking of having a nap but it’s nearly time to start over again. It’s all quiet here as both dogs are exhausted.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Hope this evening goes OK @Captain24 🤞

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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And that’s a wrap!!! All done and dusted. Now my house is my own and no more jobs to do..

Im exhausted and feel really really sick but I got through it. Plus added bonus, no comments from my mum tonight.

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BowSenior Contributor

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Fantastic @Captain24! Hope you can chill now??

do you have much on over the coming days? Do you have time off work?

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’m hoping for a chill day tomorrow @Bow but I think my parents are coming around to pick up some or maybe a lot of leftovers.

I go back to work Wednesday for 5 shifts.

Regretting some of my decisions today.

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