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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor16 June 2022, 9:48 pm AEST

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Captain24Senior Contributor17 Dec 2023, 5:06 pm AEDT

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Captain24Senior Contributor17 Dec 2023, 5:58 pm AEDT

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Sorry for letting everyone down

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Dec 2023, 6:01 pm AEDT

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sending you much love @Captain24 here with you

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Captain24Senior Contributor17 Dec 2023, 6:33 pm AEDT

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I called for help.. it was pointless. I won’t be doing that ever again.

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tymeModerator17 Dec 2023, 6:41 pm AEDT

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Hey @Captain24 ,

I'm sorry to hear that you didn't find the conversation helpful when you reached out.

Good on you for reaching out in the first place. One thing to see it is that while you were talking on the phone, it kept you safe for that time. Is that fair to say?

It may not have helped after, but at least it took up some time?

I'm sorry to hear it is so hard today.

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Captain24Senior Contributor17 Dec 2023, 7:32 pm AEDT

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It takes so much to call and then to hang up worse than when you called is shit. @tyme I’m really not ok.

Also @RiverSeal sent me an email today and it didn’t come through. I’m getting email notifications though. So I don’t know if something is wrong?

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tymeModerator17 Dec 2023, 8:06 pm AEDT

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Hey @Captain24 ,

I'll send one now and see how it goes.

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tymeModerator17 Dec 2023, 8:11 pm AEDT

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Hey @Captain24 ,

I've sent the email. Let me know if you don't get it.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor18 Dec 2023, 5:51 am AEDT

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@Captain24 wrote:
I always put others before myself @NatureLover. That’s just who I am. I always feel like I know how they a feeling and feel it too.

It definitely sounds like you're an empath, @Captain24 . I know that when I finally started putting myself first, it felt wicked and selfish. But it was necessary for some healing. It also helped my SI to go away.

@Captain24 wrote:
I can’t get a certificate as I’ve already had way too much time off this year. Plus I did apply for leave and got rejected so it’ll be a bit suss if I don’t go.

I'm concerned that you're living on the edge at the moment...if you're ill, you're ill and need a certificate, I reckon. The certificate will prove you're not just slacking off.

I hope that either way (work or not work) today is a bit of a better day for you... 🤞

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SnowieSenior Contributor18 Dec 2023, 8:54 am AEDT

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@Captain24 sending an abundance of love and hugs 💕💕

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