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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

I emailed my nurse and get a response within minutes.

I emailed HR and 2 hrs later nothing… I’m starting to really struggle. I NEED to go back to work asap. I’m heading towards crisis level.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Captain24 💖. Sending you a hug. I really do hope they can sort things out at work for you.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I hear about my job either this afternoon or Monday.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’m having SI and wishing I wasn’t here anymore. My GP has just left and now my nurse is talking about when to discharge me. It’s left me feeling very uncomfortable and unworthy.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@Captain24 I'm sorry you are going through all of this.

Please know that we are here for you.

Sending lots of love and strength your way 💕💕

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Thanks @Snowie.

I guess I just have to live with being unwanted and a burden to the outside world.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Captain24, you are not a burden 💗. You are amazing and a valuable forumite on here. I totally related to feeling unwanted and a burden. Sending you hugs.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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You are certainly not unwanted and not a burden @Captain24

Being on work cover myself and trying to navigate all of it certainly wears us down. Unfortunately things take so long to be resolved.

It certainly is not a reflection of you, but of them.

Lots of hugs 💗💗

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FloatingFeatherSenior Contributor

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Sitting with you @Captain24 and hope these difficult feelings pass for you very soon. You are very worthy and you have many people that care about you my friend.

FloatingFeather ❤️

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tymeModerator

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Oi Oi @Captain24 !

I LOVE Pix's muddy face as your profile pic! I had to really laugh.

Have you heard back from HR this arvo yet? I absolutely hear that you need to go back asap.

I'm here for a chat 🙂

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