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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor16 June 2022, 9:48 pm AEST

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Unknown userMember24 Jan 2023, 7:59 pm AEDT

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@Snowie ❤️

@Captain24 I can really see your determination to get answers and do what you need to get back, even if it's not what you want. I hope they respond soon too!

And yes! We'll be here! Have you checked out all of the different social spaces in Looking for a space to connect with others? Find a list of discussions in 'Social Spaces' here . This thread lists a few of them, but some are just good for reading!

What kind of things will you sew or crochet?

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Captain24Senior Contributor24 Jan 2023, 8:33 pm AEDT

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I’m hoping that they agree @Former-Member.

I usually avoid the social spaces, I find it difficult with my social phobia. But I’m working on it!

With sewing I’ll know when I see it. It will probably clothing of some description. Crotchet I don’t know. It would have to be really easy.

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Unknown userMember24 Jan 2023, 8:36 pm AEDT

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❤️ I understand that @Captain24

hmmm I think I started crochet with a top. Craft shops will have books of patterns, but I usually just google "free crochet top pattern" or something similar

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Captain24Senior Contributor24 Jan 2023, 8:59 pm AEDT

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I’ll see what jumps out at me @Former-Member.

Im really tired so I’m going to bed. Enjoy your night

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Captain24Senior Contributor25 Jan 2023, 11:46 am AEDT

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So I’m sitting in a food shop on my own having lunch! It is a different town though.

2 more shops to go then I’ll head back home. That’s one day I’ve hidden. Still waiting on work to get back to me on when I can return!

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Jan 2023, 11:53 am AEDT

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I hope at least it is nice food @Captain24

Hoping you hear back about work today.

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Captain24Senior Contributor25 Jan 2023, 2:53 pm AEDT

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Im home from my shopping trip. The roads are really bad still from the flooding 2 months ago!

Still nothing from work. I guess I’m not going back tomorrow either.

It really starting to get to me and I’m struggling. It’s all I’m thinking about. I desperately NEED to go back for my MH. That’s what got me into this in the first place. I hate that I was so trusting. Never again. I now trust no one.

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Captain24Senior Contributor25 Jan 2023, 6:34 pm AEDT

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Tried diamond art. Can’t focus. I’ve tried puzzles. Nope can’t focus. I’ve tried music, 3 different playlists. It irritates me. Jigsaw puzzle. Nope. Tried reading. Still no. Watch a movie? Still can’t focus.

All I’ve got is to breathe

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tymeModerator25 Jan 2023, 6:41 pm AEDT

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Do you play Wordle @Captain24 ? I haven't done today's one yet. I do it each evening. My top score is 3 guesses....

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tymeModerator25 Jan 2023, 6:42 pm AEDT

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But yes, @Captain24 - BREATHING is good 🙂

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