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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Thanks @Former-Member. I usually withdraw and decline any offers to socialise. So it’s quite a big deal. I just need to keep in contact. I’m that person that lets friends lapse.

I hope I inspired you to reach out to someone!

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I’m so bored and it not helpful!

Everything I need to do is outside. It’s been raining since 11pm last night and shows no sign of letting up. I’ve done all my housework this morning.

Im done with all things sitting. All my distractions involve sitting or being outside. Arrgh!

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Hey @Captain24 sounds super frustrating! I struggle when I get restless too sometimes.

Is there an activity you can create inside to keep you busy? I mean like, could be something like doing chores or even rearrange the furniture or something, shake things up. Or something silly like... make a blanket fort or play floor is lava hehehe

Also if it's not too cold, I've always enjoyed a good walk in the rain. Pop on some raggy clothes, leave all my electronics behind (and make sure there's a towel next to my front door for when I get back!).

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Hey @Jynx.… hope you are well.

Thanks for the suggestions! You have given me a few ideas.

Im going to frame and hang some pictures that I haven’t done since I moved in, deep clean the fridge and bath Pixie.

I have already been through all the other cupboards and I designed my house around my furniture bugger!

It’s pretty cold here but a walk in the rain sounds pretty good.

That should be me for the next couple of hours. Thank you so much.

Blanket fort does sound like fun! I’m sure Pix will love it!

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@Captain24 aww that makes me very happy to hear! Hope you and lil Pix have a lovely time 💜

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Yes @tyme the movie was that bad.

Dinner was ok.


Sorry I can’t be over there tonight.

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Nah, all good @Captain24 - not about the movie...I mean hanging over here.

I'm guessing dinner was a trigger?

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I really don’t know what’s wrong @tyme. I’ve felt pretty flat all day.

Dinner wasn’t great.

I did buy a thank you card for my GP though. I think tomorrow is my last appointment with her before she leaves.

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That's very kind of you.

I'm sorry things are a bit flat.

@Captain24 .

I'm going to have a bit now.

What did you have?

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We had fish burgers @tyme

I feel I need to thank her as she was the first person to really listen to me and I believe she saved my life. She has been a rock.

What are you having?

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