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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor16 June 2022, 9:48 pm AEST

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor21 Aug 2026, 1:46 pm AEST

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@Captain24 oohhh yay for proper rain, it poured down here yesterday.

Yes! I love that you can accept it, that's nice progress sweet. It honestly gives me hope that just maybe things will one day change for me.

I hope they do, they had some a while ago but when I ordered they had to be cancelled as they weren't available. I do have several pictures that I would love to get done so maybe I'll have to save to get some custom ones done.

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Captain24Senior Contributor21 Aug 2026, 1:50 pm AEST

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It’s not pouring but at least it’s rain and it’s soothing. @MissGremlin

Im sure you can find your way out. Sleep would make such a huge difference and I really really hope that they can get that sorted for you.

That sounds good. You could start with just one. It’s just the cost but it’s heaps cheaper that the size of the customs you ordered!

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor21 Aug 2026, 1:50 pm AEST

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@Captain24 the other photo is up.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor21 Aug 2026, 1:52 pm AEST

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@Captain24 The sound of the rain is so soothing!

Sleep would make a huge difference and so would proper support.

I'm seeing how this custom one turns out at the moment, it's only from shein. Got 2 more sections to go still.

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Captain24Senior Contributor21 Aug 2026, 2:05 pm AEST

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I’ve just seen it @MissGremlin You are amazing! That looks so good!

Maybe that’s an option if it turns out. You could do a cheaper custom!

I was just dancing in the rain! 😜

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor21 Aug 2026, 2:12 pm AEST

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@Captain24 thankyou sweet, it was a bit of fun.

Definitely an option and a good one aswell.

Haha I love it, there's nothing like dancing in the rain!

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Captain24Senior Contributor21 Aug 2026, 2:14 pm AEST

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It was nice. @MissGremlin

Do you still do Lego with nightfury?

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor21 Aug 2026, 2:18 pm AEST

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@Captain24 we haven't done any for a while. She's had alot going on lately.

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Captain24Senior Contributor21 Aug 2026, 2:34 pm AEST

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Fair enough @MissGremlin I hope you two can back to it soon. More connection for you, espionage when I’m at work.

Im almost half way through this section. I did it 20 rows high this time. I should count how many across 40cm is but I don’t think I want to know! 😂

I thought about trying it your way but I just couldn’t let go of the way I do it. It’s a routine and structure thing!

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor21 Aug 2026, 2:39 pm AEST

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@Captain24 we still connect when we can and I'm sure we'll finish our Lego one day.

I've barely done any, I finished one section on my one that I started yesterday and did a little bit of the cheap custom one that I've been working on. I've not had a chance to sit still really.

Haha yeah not sure I'd want to know how many across it is 😂.

I've started going from bottom left to the top and then across to the right.

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