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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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I just got 3 in a row and was excited! @MissGremlin. Another shower of rain has just come over.

when I finish this section I’ll have 2 smaller sections to go and it’ll be finished so hopefully by the time I go to work next block it should be done or close to.

All these colours are dark at the moment. The rocks were quite dark.

You get them don’t so much quicker than I do! Other than at night I feel like I do it more often.

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@Captain24 haha getting 3 in a row is super exciting 😂. Lucky your clothes are inside now.

Oohhh that's getting so close to being finished, I can't wait to see it once it's done.

Yes the rocks did look quite dark but it looked like an awesome picture to do.

I can only really work on mine at night other than the occasional day that I've done with you. Yours are also so much bigger than mine.

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Lucky they are. @MissGremlin

The next half a dozen colours will be the same!

Im hoping I get it finished. It’ll take me days to get back to it as I have lawns to mow as well next block!

How do you do your sections. I just count up 20 rows and go all the way across the whole 40cm

I guess the are bigger and probably more detail with having so many more colours.

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@Captain24 I'm sure you'll get it finished soon even in between having to do other things.

I do about 20 dots across and just fold the plastic up a bit and do a section then fold it a bit more and do another. It's usually 3 sections per row how I do it. Hope that makes sense 😂.

Yes definitely they have so much more detail and colours. I did look at a couple of places that do custom ones but I can't justify $50 for one.

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So you do it upwards? I do it long ways. If I’m making any sense. I do the 20 rows all the way across and then fold the plastic and and go again. @MissGremlin

They are expensive to have done. I love them but I can afford to do it. Well sort of, Pix is making it a bit hard!

There is a lot of dots that just don’t run together! They are all scattered. I only have a couple of colours that run together. On this one!

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@Captain24 i do it upwards yes. I've tried the other way but my arm gets stuck to it 😂.

They're definitely worth the money and I'm hoping i can eventually get some done, just for the experience at least. Pix's vet costs and medications would definitely be making things harder.

That makes it a bit tricky that they are all scattered and would be more time consuming. I've almost finished this section and then I need to set things up for tomorrow and I need to do a couple of things. As much as I wish I could just keep going, I feel like i need to get up and moving at the moment.

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My arm does sometimes depending on which one I’m doing. I just start at the first colour on the right of the 20th row, do that and then I go down to the next one and do that all the way across too. I always finish off the start first. I’m currently in the 8th dot down but they are so scattered and yes it’s really time consuming! @MissGremlin

At least we spent some time together. It’s ok that you have to get up and do things. I should probably see if my washing dried. Or it can just wait until Wednesday morning.

I just sat on the couch and now I can’t stay awake. I might have a nap for an hour and take stuff tonight to help me sleep. I really need to take this back brace off as well.

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@Captain24 it'sbeen nice to spend some time together especially as you'll be back at work tomorrow. I just need to keep busy right now.

A nap sounds good, so does taking the back brace off. I shall chat to you later sweet, sending lots of love and hugs ❤️.

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It’s all good. I just told the dogs I was going to bed and now they are down there waiting for me! 😂.

You gotta do what you need to do! @MissGremlin

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Hey! I remember you saying you made your psych cry. What happened? @Captain24

I haven't been on the forums much at all, but I still come to post whenever I can. I've been following posts here and there where I can. So I defo haven't forgotten you!

If your dogs were barking, would you have let them out to scare off the cat? I'm sure it wasn't a cat who stole your jacket!!!! You never got it back, right?

Tell me about the psych post, or can you tag me the link? Go to the post options and click on "Get Link"

I'm been busy with life admin as usual!

Guess what I did today? It's so funny when I think about it.

I woke up at 6:30am, jumped up, got dressed and thought I had to leave the house for an appointment! I thought it was Tuesday and I had a meeting! I was angry that my alarm didn't go off. Then when I looked at my phone, I realised it was Sunday! I was about to drive off for this appointment!

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