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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Can you put some music on @Captain24 ? Perhaps some Christmas music? We have some on at the moment while we get things ready for tomorrow

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That is a hard place to be in @Captain24 I hope you get what you need done and then can have some time for yourself too.

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Thank you @Bow @Snowie

I always have music on but didn’t even think of it today. Thanks heaps for the reminder! It got my kitchen cleaned.

All the food prep is done it’s just housework to do. But if it doesn’t get done then to bad.

Im going through withdrawals plus adjusting to new meds. It really messing with me. I have the shakes really badly and I lost count of how many times I burnt myself. I looked at all the dishes and was overwhelmed. I’ve lived in this house 18months. I forgot I had a dishwasher! Plus it is causing really bad fluctuations in my mood.

I hope today is going well for you both and you are able to chill for a little while

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Hi @Captain24

It is hard to go through withdrawals of meds. I hope that you get some relief soon.

I am glad that music helped hon. It is a good way of getting things done.

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I feel like I’m on a roller coaster. I don’t know if it’s the withdrawal or adjusting to a med increase or the new med.

2 days ago I was great. Yesterday I was good. I started out today pretty flat but now it’s dropped really badly.

Im so tired of this.

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Merry Christmas @Captain24 i know today is a difficult day, but hope that it goes ok

💕

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Thank you so much for your kind words @Bow. It means more to me than you realise! I’m taking some self care time I think I’ve got 2 hrs.


Merry Christmas to you too. I hope this

morning was magical for you with your daughter. I hope this afternoon and evening go ok for you.

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Thanks @Captain24 we had a lovely morning, daughter was spoilt so much. Brother, his fiancé and their gorgeous little bubba came for lunch. Daughter has just been picked up by her father to spend the rest of the afternoon with him. So I’m just sitting down for a rest!

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That’s good @Bow I’m glad you had a good morning.

The priest said this morning that ‘Christmas is about giving.’ So why have kids if you can’t spoil them!
It’s so full on in the mornings you deserve a rest.

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I’m feeling pretty down. I think it’s the after effects of yesterday. I hate that I crash after being social. I thought I had made it today but I guess not. I can’t keep doing this.

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