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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor

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@Captain24 how are you doing sweetheart?

I dozed off for a little bit.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’m glad you dozed off @MissGremlin. Jett just woke me up barking.

Im thinking I’ll just cook some dinner and try and watch some tv. It won’t stop the thoughts but at least it’s something.

How are you doing?

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor

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@Captain24 oh that's frustrating, I got woken up by very loud noises here.

What's for dinner tonight sweet? I know it might not stop the thoughts but it's better than nothing.

I'm rather exhausted, mentally and emotionally. My friend is really struggling and I just can't settle knowing how at risk she is and that she can't get the help she needs. I'm safe but I'm feeling so stuck on what to do.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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That’s annoying being woken up by loud noises. @MissGremlin

Just pasta and cheese again. It’s all I’ve got.

I don’t know what to suggest to help. It can be really concerning especially if they don’t respond so quickly.

It’s hard being so exhausted mentally and physically. It feels all consuming.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor

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@Captain24 oh it really is.

Yummy pasta and cheese though. I made bolognase for dinner but really wasn't hungry so I only managed to eat a little bit.

Yes it's really concerning, I just want her to get the support she needs.

It feels so consuming. I feel like there's a huge weight dragging me down and I can't escape from it. Oohh I just noticed that it's almost time to start by bedtime routine, yay for being able to hop into bed soon and do some diamond art.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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A little bit is better than nothing and you have leftovers so you don’t have to cook tomorrow @MissGremlin . I’m putting some Oporto’s Bondi sauce on it.

Yay for the bedtime routine. Hope it goes smoothly for you and you can relax.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor

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@Captain24 i can't eat leftovers of bolognase but my son will enjoy it tomorrow I'm sure 😂. Ooohhh the Bondi sauce sounds interesting, is it nice?

Thankyou sweet, I'm hoping it does. Tomorrow has a few things on.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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It’s the chilli sauce that they put on the Bondi burgers. @MissGremlin. It’s really hot.

What’s in tomorrow other than your counsellor? Anything exciting

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor

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@Captain24 I've never had it so wouldn't know what it's like 😂.

Nothing exciting, another appointment that's not for me. A shopping trip and then counsellor.

What about you sweet?

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tymeModerator

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Hello @MissGremlin @Captain24 !

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