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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

Thank you!! @tyme . You’ve done a great job getting me this far! Thank you.

Pixie is asleep on my bed so I’ll give her an extra big cuddle from you.

Sleep well

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

I am not ok…

I am safe but don’t want to be.

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hanamiSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry to hear you're not ok. I'm glad you're safe though. How is your little doggie? Are you able to get out and take a walk?

We are all here for you

Hanami

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FloatingFeatherSenior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

Hi @Captain24,

I'm sorry to read you are not okay - sitting with you and am here if you want to talk about anything. We care about you and we are here for you anytime.

Big hugs,

FloatingFeather

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Hi @hanami @FloatingFeather

I haven’t been able to take Pix for a walk as it’s raining. She is really tired anyway as we just got home from holidays.

I’ve put so much into last week to pretend I’m ok and dealing with my parents toxicity. Now that I’m home I’ve got nothing left.

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PaperdaisySenior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

Hey @Captain24 Welcome home! It must be nice to be back in your own space.

Would it be helpful to call the helpline tonight if there are a lot of thoughts to process? It sounds like you had a big week and are tired, which is understandable. 💝

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Thanks @Paperdaisy. It’s so good to be alone. No arguments, no criticism, no asking permission to do anything.

I thought about calling but I don’t even know what the thoughts are or where to start. My head is just a jumbled mess.

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PaperdaisySenior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

Sometimes we don't know what we need until we start talking and it all comes out. It might be worth a try @Captain24 ?

💝

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I did call @Paperdaisy but I chickened out while on hold.

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PaperdaisySenior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

How about the chat @Captain24 ?

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