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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor16 June 2022, 9:48 pm AEST

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor19 July 2024, 7:30 pm AEST

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Got it mate.
Understood.

What rants, can you tell me what you mean if you can @Captain24

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Captain24Senior Contributor19 July 2024, 7:35 pm AEST

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When you tell people to ‘just shut up’ and go from there with ‘stupid’ ‘don’t give a f’’ ‘everyone can get f’d’ that kinda thing. @ArraDreaming

I don’t mean to upset you I am just being honest with the way I feel. It’s as much about me and how I take it as about you saying. I hope that makes sense.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor19 July 2024, 7:45 pm AEST

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It does, thank you @Captain24

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Captain24Senior Contributor19 July 2024, 8:06 pm AEST

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Please take on board the good stuff as well @ArraDreaming. You do have a lot of good points. Focus on those.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor19 July 2024, 8:14 pm AEST

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You too @Captain24 you are so valued here

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor20 July 2024, 7:31 am AEST

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Hi @Captain24 , just popping in to wish you well...

I'm still sick in bed, day 8, plus bad asthma.

Hope today is good for you.

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Captain24Senior Contributor20 July 2024, 9:49 am AEST

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Oh thats not good @NatureLover. Do you have the flu? That usually knocks people around for a while. We have had a few off here with it.

I do hope you feel better soon.

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 July 2024, 10:28 am AEST

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Hi @Captain24

Hope today goes ok for you hon

Are you working at all this weekend?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor20 July 2024, 10:37 am AEST

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No, it's a bad cold and cough. But I've just booked another GP appt for tomorrow. Thanks @Captain24

I hope your work goes well today (I gather you're working this weekend?)

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Captain24Senior Contributor20 July 2024, 11:06 am AEST

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I hope the doc can help @NatureLover. I know you struggle enough in winter. Being sick must make it even harder.

Yeah I work all weekend @Snowie. The bonus is that I get to leave early. I told mum that I leave at 4 now she wants me to finish the dogs walk with them aargh… I will still leave earlier I’ll just have to stay in mu works clothes. I hate that I always have to lie to her or I get in trouble.

I hope you are doing ok? I hope you can spend some time away from your mother.

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