I can’t cope

Sorry to hear about Pix @Captain24 I hope it isn't anything too bad.

I hope the alone time at home was nice.

Awww. Poor Pix. Hope she will be okay @Captain24

The alone time was great @Snowie @tyme

So mum sends me a message saying that Pix can’t put her foot on the floor. She can’t walk on it. I said ok to taking her to the vet. Nothing is wrong and she is walking on it just fine!

So does have to have pain relief just in case.

Bonus. The vet wasn’t scared of her and Pix was good with her too. Maybe I have found out new vet since my old one left.

Arghhhh @Captain24

Drama drama....

Oh I know @tyme. She is sitting here whining so she is fine.

How is old mate in your house going?

He's up and down. He gets very upset with the voices. I don't think he's on the right meds. That's something his MH team need to sort out.

I went there last week to fix a tap of his. The place looks so lovely. It makes me want to go back there.

I want to help him more, but I don't want him to get attached. He's a real softie. Actually, his mum isn't well and he's stressed out about her. She has an aneurism, and has been feinting a lot lately. She lives in supported care for the vulnerable and those at risk of homelessness.

He's got a long way to go, but such a lovely guy @Captain24

I need to step back and know I can't DO things for people to help them.

LOL. Pix is whining, so she's fine @Captain24 Is she a major whiner?

I’m so glad he is looking after the place @tyme. As simple as that sounds it’s a lot. It’s hard with MH issues to clean a place. Having it look good so care and consideration. It also shows respect that you are giving home a chance.

Thats sad about his mum.

It’s hard to find that line between support and attachment. I have attachment issues, I know that and need to work on it.

It sounds like you have a good respect for him as well.

He may have a long way to go but it’s not as far as it was before you have him a roof over his head.

Yes she’s a whiner. If she’s not getting what she wants she certainly lets you know. So I’ve put her on my lap to shut her up. Now she is scratching so I will pat her! So demanding! lol 😜

Hi @ArraDreaming.

I appreciate your apology.

You have hurt me and you have made me not want to respond to you for fear of getting hurt further.

I am also scared that if I say the wrong thing you will get angry and start one of your rants. I can’t cope with one of those directed at me.

Am I ready to communicate with you? No, not yet and that’s me being honest.

I do see you around and I do appreciate the effort you are making with other members. Also the joy in you when you are talking about your family and culture. You do have a good heart.

When I am ready I will come to you. Just not now. I am sorry for that though.