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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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That’s good news about Jett @Captain24 glad that he is doing so well. Sucks about the vet though and the rehab.

im glad to read that your doing ok too.

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Both of those Vets are absolutely amazing and I totally trust what they say @Bow. When my vet said he needed surgery I just said ok. She is an orthopaedic surgeon. Now we won’t have one when she leaves.

Yeah I think I’m ok. I’m just not sure. It’s hard for me to understand. It’s just like I am lost. Don’t fit anywhere.

Im sorry things have been so hard especially at this time of year. I hear you. I don’t understand what you are feeling as I , fortunately, haven’t been through it. But know I'm listening.

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I’m done with diamond art. I just can’t do anymore today. I’ve had enough, plus my hand and wrist a really sore!

Im done with listening to my music. I don’t want to hear another song.

I thought that I would watch tv. Nothing, nothing I have recorded do I care for right now.

Next, Netflix. I’m trying to watch a series I was into. Nope not into that either.

My night isn’t going so well.

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Arghh... don't over do it... It'll make your eyes blurry. I've got a headache from the cold even though I've got the heater on.

Do you fish?

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I’m trying hard here.

It’s cold here too. I just checked the weather and it feels like 3 degrees. @tyme

I have never been fishing and not sure that I will.

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I don't know what draws me or people to fishing. I let the fish go, but I just seem to feel so relaxed @Captain24 . I don't do it much though.

The kids are on school holidays as of today... they are already driving me bonkers. They are eating nutrigrain for dinner.

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I’ve never even thought about fishing @tyme. I was always told as a kid that I wouldn’t like it. So it’s just one of those things where I wouldn’t even know where to start.

Oh no. It’s only Friday night. You have a long way to go! You haven’t said much about them recently. Is all ok?

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I've been stressed out lately and actually went to bed just to 'hide' from it. This is not like me, but things happening in real life really affected me @Captain24 . So I haven't spent much time with them.

It's okay though. As I said before, I'm in a much better place and it's all okay.

Yes, it's only Friday... we have two weeks to go. I'm trying to set up locks on their ipads so they cannot use them.

As for Rubyrose, we got a really cute collar for her. It's a Ruby rose colour with a gold plate for her name and our phone number. I don't like puppy phases. She's chewing everything. And pooing and weeing everywhere still. She's regressed so much. I guess it's sort of our fault too because there's too many people doing different things with Ruby and she doesn't have time to be trained properly. I just walk away.

Did Jett chew everything?

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@tyme We have one more week of school and then we are on holidays here too. I’ve recently put really strict rules in place for iPads after D was banned for a long time when she some how managed to spent $100 on a game! I was not happy. Thankfully got it refunded, but she was in trouble! I even had to set up downtime on my iPad cause I caught her getting up in the middle of the night and playing on it!

our dog is 3 tomorrow…. And she still chews stuff! She was terrible as a puppy! Chewed so much stuff. The vet suggested giving her cardboard boxes. She chews them, eats some of it, but doesn’t do any damage.

hey @Captain24 have you watched sweet tooth on Netflix? We have been watching it of a Friday night. I didn’t think id enjoy it but I have been. And there’s always Lego 😃 I’ve done so much this week while being sick!

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If that’s what you needed to do to get through then that’s ok. @tyme

Is it hard to do. I bet you unlock them when they start to drive you crazy!! I’ll check back in in 2 weeks! 😜

Thats so cute. Neither of mine have a collar. I just use a harness when I walk them. But chihuahuas are prone to collapsed tracheas so that’s why they don’t have collars.

I was lucky, both of mine didn’t really chew anything other than paper. Any piece of paper that was on the floor was fair game! Jett is still in that phase but Pix will do it on occasion. I don’t do anything about that as I figured paper was better than anything else.

That’s what I do with Jett’s teddy. He loves it but he also humps it. It’s the only thing he bumps so I let him. I figured it was the best thing.

It would be confusing for her with all different commands. Everyone needs to be in the same page, she’s too little,

maybe that might help. We have to do that because Mum and Dad have them half the time. Plus I have to make sure I do what mum does for Keiko. Sorry if that’s inappropriate I just realised I went off in a tangent.

Puppy’s are really hard work. Jett isn’t toilet trained yet and he is 8 months old. He is close but is just stubborn or lazy not sure. I’m hoping that being locked in the pen will help with that. It’s similar to crate training just for six weeks longer.

Do you have plans for them over the holidays?

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